Rough Sex 

or

~Aggressive Passion~

Assertive and vigorous sexual desire. ~L.K.

Aggressive:

pursuing one’s aims and interests forcefully, sometimes unduly so.
“an aggressive businessman”
synonyms: assertive, pushy, forceful, vigorous, energetic, dynamic; bold, audacious; in-your-face, feisty; vulgar slangass-kicking
“an aggressive promotional drive”

~Google

Passion:

Any powerful or compelling emotion or feeling, as love or hate.
strong amorous feeling or desire; love; ardor.
strong sexual desire; lust.
An instance or experience of strong love or sexual desire.
A person toward whom one feels strong love or sexual desire.
A strong or extravagant fondness, enthusiasm, or desire for anything.
The object of such a fondness or desire:

~Dictionary.com

Rough Sex …. What is rough sex and how does it differ from Aggressive Passion? 

Define Rough Sex; Sexual activity—which may include sado-masochistic activity—in which one or both participants risk bodily harm or even death should one lose control. Wiki~

Need I say more? ..Well even if you said, no, I have to say more. This definition seems to be from the dark ages…….. Closed Minded. Death never is an option in D/s-M…. You’re married to this person. Your partner wants only what’s good for you and has your best interests in mind.  Your Dominant is never to loose control. He/She is there to provide you with experiences that will feed you both. Jokingly, Death…. Life in Prison… never a good idea……. HA! HA!

I wanted to write about something I feel is one of the basis of our desire for submission.

 Aggressive Passion; Assertive and vigorous sexual desire. The feel of my Sir’s hands on the nape of my neck,  I surrender to him, I submit.  I want him to be rough and pick me up and toss me around like a doll, his property, unapologetic.  His voice demanding things from me… dark & deviant things that I never would have done before, as vanilla.

His eyes turn cold and black.  The edges of his mouth curl into a devious grin. He is no longer my husband, the man I have known for many ..many years. His face a stranger. I am so happy not to be able to guess his next move……. I yearn for this newcomer… I want to take every harsh and brutal thing he can dream up or dish out… Not only take it but relish in it. Pushing me onto my knees… Pleasure me Lapin…… I do as I am told, Yes, Sir.  Every lash of leather … I eat up hungrily. Pain is turned into pleasure. The beads of sweat covering my skin…… His fingers wrapped around my neck letting only small gasps of breath leave my lips.

I need to feel the push and pull of my slippery wet pink folds of skin.  The greed for the pressure and the longing of being filled to the hilt, his length consumed….. stretched to full capacity, his girth I devour. Only for him to deny me of my own pleasure, Over & Over!!!…. How deliciously vicious! Pushing my limits…. I am frightened of it yet I crave it.

What is it I am feeling? Fire,  a burning?  Yes, the burn of the ropes released. I feel the blood return to its rightful place ..the burn of it rushing back to my previously clamped nipples as his mouth covers them to bring them some type of comfort.  My ass and my back flogged and cropped properly, I now feel the heat rising off them.  I then visualize my scarlet stained skin…almost, …. beautifully broken. My Badges of honor to stare at tomorrow. An overstimulated & over spanked clit has burnt so long that now it has an iciness.. He touches the bud and it is frozen hard even though surrounded by HOT flesh…. It is finally allowed to explode. I shake and quake uncontrollably as Sir wrings every bit of pleasure from my body. I have surrendered to his every depraved whim… I have been broken into a million pieces, then piece by piece he put me back together again, not the same but stronger and better then before.

I think back every time we are about to take on another scene, can I make it through this again? Can I climb the mountain and make him proud of me? Push a little further just for him?

Would I want anything else? How rewarding it feels after every scene… I am at peace… Did I please Sir? How can I improve for him? How far will we go? As far as my Sir will take me… as far as he wants to go…

Some say “rough-sex” …. I like “Aggressive Passion” ……. Please Sir, more…..

~LK

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