D|s-M, “The Ultimate Marriage Accessory”
These articles began with Little Kaninchen’s personal journey into a world that was once dark, taboo and primarily fantasy. The archives demonstrate the fundamentals of BDSM and the method of a D|s-M married relationship. These posts outline the principles and values required to create a sustainable Dominance and submission dynamic.
The articles also include targeted topics on submission as well as proven methods and scenarios that are crucial for developing a new submissive mindset. Our premium articles allow a voyeuristic perspective of lk and Mr. Fox’s continuing journey into a sacred sexuality dynamic.
lk is a Certified Energy & Relationship Coach and has been mentor-coaching countless women along their journeys. Her experience, knowledge, and perspective of relationship are truly one of a kind. As a member, you can post your thoughts and comments right below each article and lk will respond to those comments.
INVEST IN YOUR MARRIAGE
subMrs Elite Membership
Purchasing this membership gives you a special 30 day discount code for your husDOM or DomMrs. to use on their own annual subscription. Its is very important that both partners engage in their roles for the dynamic to work properly. This discount should allow you both to do this in an affordable manner.
subMrs Elite Membership
40% OFF husDOM™ Offer
annual membership only
This membership is focused on giving you an exclusive community experience. Our modern theme provides you with multiple ways to chat, write and learn from other submissives in a private yet friendly way. You can sign up to get notifications for any new content or group you choose to join.
Our communities current features:
D|s-M Video Discussions
Premium D|s-M Articles
Groups & Discussions (Forums)
Multiple Chat Rooms
Community Video Group Meetings
Social Media Style Platform:
See someone that you like or admire? Follow them to stay informed on their posts and comments.
‘Friend’ other members and develop camaraderie among the group.
Member Private Messaging
Members can make friends and send Private Messages within the social media style software.
You won’t miss a thing that happens within the community. This feature allows you to get a feel for what is happening over the entire community with a simple glance.
Access the member’s directory and view member profiles.
Upload media to discussions, forums and more. Create online albums.
Subscribe to the discussions that you want to keep up to date with.
Over the course of time, operating our two online communities have given us a valuable insight into what works and what doesn’t work in regards to a healthy and secure online community.
With this being said, what works or doesn’t work would be different for different communities depending on their mission statement or goal. Our goal is designed around helping married monogamous couples find success in a Dominance and submission style relationship.
Exclusivity – Individual & Unique
Online communities today have become devalued by trolls and other members that participate but are not serious about the topic or subject matter. They misrepresent themselves and their situations only to spend much of their time provoking negative emotions in others.
A troll is a person who starts quarrels or upsets people on the Internet to distract and sow discord by posting inflammatory and digressive, extraneous, or off-topic messages in an online community (such as a newsgroup, forum, chat room, or blog) with the intent of provoking readers into displaying emotional responses and normalizing tangential discussion, whether for the troll’s amusement or a specific gain.
Due to the taboo nature of the subject matter many online communities are ripe for internet trolls. Our amazing ambassadors have always served the communities well in preventing nonsense like this and still do today. The small fee for membership has all but eliminated any type of this behavior within our communities.
We are individual and unique in that we are trying to cultivate amazing marriages and relationships while proudly being monogamous.
Exclusivity is not used as a negative term or description, it is separating us into a finely defined niche, D|s-M.
Being exclusive is not a business decision to make money. In fact, we realize that it cripples our potential revenue. If it were about the money everyone would be welcome…
Commitment – Focus & Priority
Members that have made this level of commitment to their relationships and to their partners become more focused on their personal goals, their partner’s and their relationships. This level of commitment quickly aids in bringing Married Dominance and submission to the forefront of priorities.
The intention behind the Couple’s Package or the discount code is to get a commitment from both partners and to encourage both partners to learn, grow and participate in the communities as much as possible. We have found that couple’s that make this level of commitment reach greater heights and obtain more success within their own relationship. They are both actively involved and participating equally in this journey together.
Safety, Security and Privacy
We operate some of the most sophisticated software and security measures to ensure your personal privacy. In fact, we advocate that you keep all contact with other members through our social media style platform and chats. We do not recommend sharing any personal information with other members. You are getting what you are paying for with us.
Other Benefits of using a pay filter on our community
- Strengthens membership quality
- Maximizes integrity of the community
- Improves member participation
- Filters trolls
- Barrier minimizing underage participants
subMrs™ is a submissive only community designed to provide a safe secure environment for submissives to find camaraderie among others like themselves. The subMrs™ community is a safe trustworthy ethical reputable place to exchange ideas and to learn from one another without the pressures and anxiety of Dominants or trolls interfering.
LOOK AT WHAT OTHERS ARE SAYING ABOUT US
After 33 years of a great marriage, we discovered D|s-M and it has been nothing short of amazing. We didn't start out intending to become a 24/7 D/s couple but the foundations of D|s-M have had far-reaching effects on all aspects of our lives. Even after almost 3 years, we are still learning and this site and the life long friends I have made here are central in that learning.
We have been a part of this community for almost 3 years, and I really value the guidance and mentorship we received from the beginning, as well as the true friendships we have built along the way. D|s-M allows me to feel protected, cherished, and safe. In exchange, my Dom gets to feel respected, wanted, and satisfied. It takes all of the pressure off of me because I never have to wonder if I am giving him what he wants. Letting go and allowing him to lead our family brings me so much peace, and it allows his big, caring, alpha personality to shine through.
I absolutely love this site! I got most of my information from books and other sites before I found this one. I don't feel like I am alone anymore! Everyone is so warm and welcoming and eager to help I have gotten so much guidance from others here and have gotten further on this journey in the last few months than I have by myself in the last year! I would be so lost without LK and Mr. Fox! (My Sir likes the changes too! 🙂 )
subMrs™ has been a wonderful support system for me. I get information on real subjects I can relate to and hear what others are experiencing in their dynamic as well. Even with all the other sites out there, this is the place I come to for advice, information, and to share my journey with like-minded people. There is something for the novice and the advanced. This site meets you where you are anywhere in your journey. Tons of support from other subs if you are able to join in on the chats! It is the best site I have found to the point I have stopped looking elsewhere! I can't say enough good things about the communities built by Mr. Fox and Little Kaninchen.
My first day on this site, I new it was different. The subbies here cared about me, not only about me but about my marriage. Everything I read on subMrs focused on ways to improve my marriage through submission. I spent about a month on the site before I even mentioned it to my Sir. In July 2018 I did my Formal Acceptance and thankfully he accepted. The subbies on this site have been my strength, my mentors, my encouragement, my shoulders to cry on and my kick in the butt when needed. At 55 years old, I have found my Tribe. I have found in the site, something that I have never had in the vanilla word.
I can not say enough wonderful things about this community. lk has a lot of insight into how relationships are supposed to work.
When Sir and I began to develop our D/s relationship, I felt a little lost. I instinctually knew I wanted something more, but I was in the dark about how to get it. Sir found HusDom and sent me to LK’s website, which was a treasure chest. I read LK’s open, honest blogs about the course she and Mr. Fox had taken. I reached out to some of the other subs. I ‘lurked’ in the chat room and listened to the discussions. I discovered that I was not alone in my desire to submit to Sir. I wasn’t the only one who enjoyed the subspace of aggressive passion. Each day, I used what I learned from LK to serve, obey, accept and please Sir. (S.O.A.P. being just one of the many gems I picked up here.) I turned here when I needed to learn practical things – like how to enjoy anal sex. I turned to the chat room when there was something I was nervous about discussing with Sir. I learned protocols and routines to grow our D/s. LK’s site was invaluable at helping us move into a 24/7 lifestyle as quickly and smoothly as we did. As we enter into our second year of D/s, I know that I can turn here to find subport from a large, caring group of people who have the same basic core beliefs at heart as we do. That is a treasure beyond words.