D|s-M, “The Ultimate Marriage Accessory”

husDOM and subMrs have single-handedly changed the face of D/s. Once sadly only known as something single people or swingers participated in, has now been turned into a refined sacred sexuality experience that married couples can not only indulge in but can grow and participate in together. The journey of D|s-M is a couple’s marriage self-care. Whether you use it in the bedroom only or as a lifestyle our method helps guide you with healthy relationship practices.

subMrs™ Elite Membership

The subMrs™ membership has been exclusively designed to provide the elite submissive, with defining and learning how to use Dominance and submission within the boundaries of a healthy marriage. We created an all-inclusive membership for the subMrs who wants it all, right now. This enrollment offers an abundance of articles, discussions, groups, and more. This includes a submissive-only community with live chat rooms that will inspire and sub-port your journey. The fellowship here is second to none.

subMrs Elite Membership 

$199 annual membership 


Up to 30% OFF husDOM™ Discount Code

Save up to $59.70


Learning subMrs

Premium Articles

These articles began with Little Kaninchen’s personal journey into a world that was once dark, taboo and primarily fantasy. The archives demonstrate the fundamentals of BDSM and the method of a D|s-M married relationship. These posts outline the principles and values required to create a sustainable Dominance and submission dynamic.
The articles also include targeted topics on submission as well as proven methods and scenarios that are crucial for developing a new submissive mindset. Our premium articles allow a voyeuristic perspective of lk and Mr. Fox’s continuing journey into a sacred sexuality dynamic.
lk is a Certified Energy & Relationship Coach and has been mentor-coaching countless women along their journeys. Her experience, knowledge, and perspective of relationships are truly one of a kind. As a member, you can post your thoughts and comments right below each article and lk will respond to those comments.


subMrs Elite Membership

Purchasing this membership gives you a special 30% Off discount code for your husDOM or DomMrs to use on their own annual husDOM membership subscription. It is very important that both partners engage in their roles for the dynamic to work properly. This discount should allow you both to do this in an affordable manner.

subMrs Elite Membership


Up to 30% OFF husDOM™ Discount Code

(billed annually)

Save up to $59.70 

Exclusive Community Features


This membership is focused on giving you an exclusive community experience. Our modern theme provides you with multiple ways to chat, write and learn from other submissives in a private yet friendly way. You can sign up to get notifications for any new content or group you choose to join.

Our community current features:

    • Private Discord Server (Text, audio, and video Mobile app.)
    • D|s-M Video Discussions
    • Premium D|s-M Articles
    • Groups & Discussions (Forums)
    • Multiple Chat Rooms
    • Community Video Group Meetings
    • Book Club
    • Social Media Style Platform:


See someone that you like or admire?  Follow them to stay informed on their posts and comments.


‘Friend’ other members and develop camaraderie among the group.

Member Private Messaging

Members can make friends and send Private Messages within the social media style software.

Community Activity

You won’t miss a thing that happens within the community.  This feature allows you to get a feel for what is happening over the entire community with a simple glance.

Members Directory

Access the member’s directory and view member profiles.


Upload media to discussions, forums, and more.  Create online albums.


Subscribe to the discussions that you want to keep up to date with.

Why do I have to pay to have access?

Over the course of time, operating our two online communities has given us valuable insight into what works and what doesn’t work in regards to a healthy and secure online community.  

With this being said, what works or doesn’t work would be different for different communities depending on their mission statement or goal.  Our goal is designed around helping married monogamous couples find success in a Dominance and submission style relationship.  

Exclusivity – Individual & Unique

Online communities today have become devalued by trolls and other members that participate but are not serious about the topic or subject matter.  They misrepresent themselves and their situations only to spend much of their time provoking negative emotions in others. 

troll is a person who starts quarrels or upsets people on the Internet to distract and sow discord by posting inflammatory and digressive, extraneous, or off-topic messages in an online community (such as a newsgroupforumchat room, or blog) with the intent of provoking readers into displaying emotional responses and normalizing tangential discussion, whether for the troll’s amusement or a specific gain.


Due to the taboo nature of the subject matter, many online communities are ripe for internet trolls.  Our amazing ambassadors have always served the communities well in preventing nonsense like this and still do today.  The small fee for membership has all but eliminated any type of this behavior within our communities.  

We are individual and unique in that we are trying to cultivate amazing marriages and relationships while proudly being monogamous.  

Exclusivity is not used as a negative term or description, it is separating us into a finely defined niche, D|s-M.

Being exclusive is not a business decision to make money.  In fact, we realize that it cripples our potential revenue.  If it were about the money everyone would be welcome…

Commitment – Focus & Priority

Members that have made this level of commitment to their relationships and to their partners become more focused on their personal goals, their partner’s, and their relationships.  This level of commitment quickly aids in bringing Married Dominance and submission to the forefront of priorities.  

The intention behind the Couple’s Package or the discount code is to get a commitment from both partners and to encourage both partners to learn, grow and participate in the communities as much as possible.  We have found that couples that make this level of commitment reach greater heights and obtain more success within their own relationship.  They are both actively involved and participating equally in this journey together.

Safety, Security, and Privacy 

We operate some of the most sophisticated software and security measures to ensure your personal privacy.  In fact, we advocate that you keep all contact with other members through our social media style platform and chats.  We do not recommend sharing any personal information with other members.  You are getting what you are paying for with us.

Other Benefits of using a pay filter on our community

  • Strengthens membership quality
  • Maximizes integrity of the community
  • Improves member participation
  • Filters trolls
  • Barrier minimizing underage participants

subMrs™ is a submissive-only community designed to provide a safe secure environment for submissives to find camaraderie among others like themselves.  The subMrs™ community is a safe trustworthy ethical reputable place to exchange ideas and to learn from one another without the pressures and anxiety of Dominants or trolls interfering.

subMrs Elite

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subMrs Elite

$ 199 Annually
  • Invest in your Marriage
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