Founders of the D/s-M dynamic.


Welcum to subMrs™, the exclusive online community that educates and mentors women/men in the art of submission within a married dynamic.  This journey, if you decide to take it, will transport you down a dark path to all things D/s.  No worries we illuminate your way.  Many aspects regarding Dominance and submission found online are not intended for a healthy married relationship.  The subMrs™ community has a positive and professional atmosphere for the most discerning tastes.  This site will show you how to achieve the experiences that you yearn for, enhancing your marriage rather than harming it.








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Dominance and submission lifestyle for married couples.


What is a D/s-M Lifestyle

A D/s-M Lifestyle is a lifestyle in which married couples are engaging in all or some BDSM activities, Bondage/Discipline, Dominance/submission, and Sadomasochism.
These dynamics are always used in a safe, sane and consensual manner. D/s-M stands out as a lifestyle that focusses on mindfulness as well as sustainability.
The lifestyle is squarely built on the foundations of Love, Trust, Respect, Honesty, Communication and Intimacy.


Mr Fox and I created these society’s for the couple that may not fit in the singles D/s communities.  This community encourages monogamy and also helps you to achieve those taboo experiences that you may desire.
We have developed a proven fundamental plan for you to follow to help you achieve D/s-M dynamics.
Then help you customize your dynamic as you grow to make it your own.
This society believes in the pay it forward motto.  We have helped thousands and in turn we ask you to stay diligent in your growth in order to help new members gain their footing by sharing your experiences.
We request that the atmosphere stay positive and professional and that it fosters a team like attitude. D/s-M is work on both sides, Dominant and submissive. Both partners must stay engaged and growing in their roles. The best thing is the harder you both work, the harder you both get to play.

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My experience started with reading the trilogy, Fifty Shades of Grey. It awoke something so strong inside. As I snapped closed the last book, tears ran down my face. I had to find a way to have the fairytale. I was ready to rekindle what I was scared may have already been lost in my marriage. Isn’t this type of dynamic for singles? How could I have those taboo experiences I read about and be married? How do I approach my husband? Would society deem me a deviant? Would I be judged by the guy upstairs? Like magic all these questions were answered. My path cleared to start on my way.

I started a blog called The Bedroom submissive. This blog was about dipping my toe into the world I desired. After a few months I began to see I was not alone in my need and there wasn’t much out there for married couples who wanted to take a journey such as this one. As I wrote, many people responded saying they wanted what my husband and I were steadily creating,
D/s-M. The blog came alive and many women daily were writing asking me about my experience and how they may achieve it. Our D/s grew past the bedroom and took itself into our everyday lives. This was more then the relationship I had read about. This was about using D/s in your entire marriage. So we began the website called and now my husband had started his site, perfectly named, the companion site just for Dominants. We then wrote blog posts, hosted live chats and started group forums along the way. When we each got over three thousand members on our sites, I knew what our next steps had to be… An original submissive and Dominant only online communities. was born. We have been still increasing and broadening the scope of the sites by hosting national gatherings for the last 3 years, each one becoming more successful. As our personal D/s dynamic grows we continue to broaden our minds and work on mid-life Intimacy and its relationship. All the time finding the secret garden where we all desire to roam.

Rated the #1 Married submissive online society by our worldwide community

Some of subMrs™ Society's Feature Highlights

Membership Community

The membership community allows our members an opportunity to experience and share camaraderie among like minded submissives.

submissive Only Community

The subMrs™ community is comprised of submissives only.

No anxiety or fear regarding trolling Dominants.

Live Chat

Real-time 24/7 live submissive chat.

submissive chat provides an opportunity to chat live with the world’s most successful married submissives.


The submissive forum is arguably one of the greatest submissive resources online today.


Online security is taken seriously at subMrs™. We incorporate SSL connections and utilize server side anti-virus software.


The blog posts have been written by Little Kaninchen and reflect her personal journey and knowledge regarding the Married Dominance and submission lifestyle. In these posts you will get to know not only about her submission but her in general.

Outstanding Support

The submissive society is comprised of many submissives that have once been exactly where you are right now. This community is laden with knowledge and experience. The support among the society is priceless to each and every member.

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Members from our D/s-M Societies (husDOM™ & subMrs™) assemble to forge lifetime bonds with other members a few times a year.

Our members are part of an elite and prestigious group of married Dominants and submissives.

subMrs™ is trusted by thousands of members and clients worldwide


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Then you are right where you are sub-posed to be.   subMrs™ is the world’s #1 rated married submissive online society.

Once a member, you will discover support from other married submissive’s much like yourself.

submissive Only

subMrs™ is a submissive only community.

Our membership is afforded the opportunity to participate and connect with other submisisves without the anxiety or concern of non-submissive members.

Pre-Membership Question?

We are developing a Pre-Membership frequently asked questions page. This page should answer the most common concerns and questions regarding joining the world’s #1 rated society of elite submissives.

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