Coming Undone, Spiraling…. 

Winding in a continuous and gradually widening (or tightening) curve, either around a central point on a flat plane or about an axis so as to form a cone, “a spiral pattern”.

 

 

You know the feeling … The creeping feeling that things are coming undone. It starts small and gets big quickly.

It feels like your D/s is dissolving…. sub~PANIC! You’re scared and you feel out of control. The fear has set in…. We all have experienced this spiral. You come undone. Your Sir is the only one who can pick you up “Reset” you again. Some submissives need/want the feeling of their power and cores being stripped, then delight in the reset…

Being reset… A power exchange needs to happen…. Your pain is pouring out …. Give it over to him. Let your tears stream down….. He will take your body and break it down until you are raw and red. You gladly give yourself over and he restores it piece by piece and puts you back together again… feeding & filling you until you are strong.

Sit in downtime and talk honest and try to communicate the best way you can. It can be hard to get points across. Talk slow and respectful and he will help you.

Sometimes hormones can be triggers so explain to your Sir ahead that it may happen and this is why. Seems simple but when it happens to you it’s real… and very serious….

 

The power to strip away another’s soul bare, a Dom’s cross to bare.

The strength to stand naked & obey is a sub’s power.

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PLAY Time PLAY list ALERT!   Duran Duran: Come Undone “Come Undone”

Mine, immaculate dream made breath and skin I’ve been waiting for you Signed, with a home tattoo, Happy birthday to you was created for you
(can not forgive from falling apart at the seams Can not believe you’re taking my heart to pieces)
Oh, it’ll take a little time, Might take a little crime To come undone now
[Prechorus:] We’ll try to stay blind To the hope and fear outside Hey child, stay wilder than the wind And blow me into cry
[Chorus:] Who do you need, who do you love When you come undone? Who do you need, who do you love When you come undone?
Words, playing me deja vu Like a radio tune I swear I’ve heard before Chill, is it something real Or the magic I’m feeding off your fingers?
(can not forgive from falling apart at the seams Can not believe you’re taking my heart to pieces)
Lost, in a snow filled sky, we’ll make it alright To come undone now
[Prechorus] [Chorus]
(can not forgive from falling apart) Who do you need, who do you love When you come undone? (can not forgive from falling apart) Who do you need, who do you love? (can not forgive from falling apart) Who do you love When you come undone? (can not forgive from falling apart)

 

 

 

Next Time you feel it coming… You’re COMING UNDONE..………. Reach inside and go communicate to your Sir. Explain that you need a “RESET” .

 

 

 

~LK~

6 Comments
  1. Little Red 5 years ago

    I love this post, it is so important to realize when this is happening and share with my Sir. As I grow in my D/s-M journey, I am noticing sooner when this occurs; before it gets out of hand.

    It is still hard for me to verbalize exactly what I need from Sir when this happens. But, we are learning together, if anyone has any suggestions on how to make me explain it better, I would welcome any advise.

    • LK Founder D|s-M 5 years ago

      Congrats …. You find yourself catching it… talking about it and most of the time avoiding it… Youre on your way girl!

      LK

  2. Stags-RedVixen 1 year ago

    Love this

  3. Hisgirl*AMB/GH 3 months ago

    LK,
    I’m glad I found this blog. I’ve been spiraling for the past couple of days and I know this is what I need. It is so hard for me to communicate what I need when this starts to happen but it is the only thing that I think will stop the spiral. I do plan to talk to my Sir about this. Wish me luck 🙂

  4. Author
    LK Founder D|s-M 3 months ago

    HG, yes submissive spiral is a real thing, a thing that we all have happen to us and you know it doesn’t stop happening but we do learn how to tell when its starting to happen so we can ask for our SIr’s help before it goes full on SPIRAL! Talk to your Sir, set up things for future spirals, a code word or something letting him know that you need to sit and communicate, even if its his hand communicating with your BUM…

    HUGS! Let me know if I can be of any help ….

    LK

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