Sexual Body Exploration | Exploring Your Partner’s Body

Couple's Body Exploration Scene, Intimacy Exercise, Marriage's Sexiest Secret, Body Exploration, Sexual Exploration, Exploring your partners body. Immersive couples experience, Erogenous Zones, Sexual Hot Spots, Touch Techniques, Quest for Fire, subMrs, husDOM

“Houston we have less problems in the bedroom!” This is what I hear time again and again, after couples participate in sexual body exploration exercise or share in a Body Exploration Scene or session in the bedroom. Whether you’re just beginning this dynamic or you are seasoned and just looking for something to enrich your bedroom play, Body Exploration is the answer to a deeper sexual intimacy. This sexual immersive experience is basically sensually exploring your partner’s body to further your knowledge about their sexual likes and dislikes. HusDOMs will gain the wisdom of how to work their subMrs body like an instrument. SubMrs will learn how to use their bodies to heighten and please their husDOMs. This intimate play will allow both partners practice in working one another to further their sexual encounters. Sexual Body Exploration leads you both to sexual happiness and intimate fulfillment.

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In the Zone

In Sexual Body Exploration you want to know how your partner reacts to certain stimulation, even better what parts of their body reacts MOST positive… and those areas they don’t like messed with. Get to know their Erogenous Zones. Erogenous Zones, the male and female HOT SPOTS. The word erogenous comes from the Greek words “eros” (love) and “genous” (producing). 

Erogenous zones are parts of the body that excite sexual feelings when touched or stimulated. They may be genital or extra-genital. Either of these areas have been known to be able to produce orgasm.

Female Extragenital erogenous zones

  • Breasts/nipples
  • Mouth/Lips
  • Ears
  • Nape or back of the neck
  • Buttocks
  • Inner thigh
  • Lower abdomen/pubic area
  • Fingers/Toes
  • Wrist
  • Scalp 
  • Behind the knees
  • Perineum (the space between the anus and vagina)
  • Lower back

Male Extragenital Erogenous Zones

  • Mouth/Lips
  • Ears
  • Inner thigh
  • Nape or back of the neck
  • Nipples
  • Fingers/Toes
  • Perineum (the area between the anus and scrotum)
  • Lower abdomen/pubic area
  • Buttocks
  • Scalp
  • Stomach
  • Lower back 

The Erogenous zones, husDOM’s, these are the areas you want to make sure you grab, rub, pat, pinch and spank ect…. subMrs, these areas on your husDOM, that with permission, you want to stroke, lick and suck.


Couple’s should study their partner’s as well as their own Positive and Negative Reactions to every body exploration scene that they participate in. These are BEFORE, DURING and AFTER reactions… Make sure to notice and write them out and journal if you need to explore the reasons why you are experiencing these.

Emotional Positive Signs

  • Joy
  • Contentment
  • Interest
  • Engagement
  • Pride

Physical Positive Signs

  • Pushing into you
  • Female self lubrication
  • Heavy Breathing
  • Swelling of Tissue
  • Nipples Pebble
  • Chest Flushing
  • Mist of body sweat
  • Skin color, texture and color

Emotional Negative Signs

  • Anger
  • Fear
  • Anxiety
  • Sadness
  • Depression

Physical Negative Signs

  • No lubrication
  • No signs of stimulation
  • Hyperventilating
  • Negative skins texture, sweat, color

Navigator & Guide

Navigating someones body is like navigating the oceans wide. You are wanting to make discoveries and prospect new lands. The Top or Dominant in this situation will navigate his/her bottom or submissive. They take the helm and decide what direction to go. Some guidance is always appreciated and showing them the way shows confidence and connection.

At first it is hard to be “the guide” in your exploration, but take your time and once comfortable, you can lead your partner around your body. Let them truly see inside you mind and body during your scene or session.


During exploration make sure you have great atmosphere for comfortable nude exploration.

  • Light; Light’s on…. They can be dim, but light enough to see things happen.
  • Temperature; You’re both nude, so keep warm enough you both are very comfortable from the beginning.
  • Scent; Do you both enjoy a certain scent? Go ahead light a candle or use that essential oil. Use warmed massage lotions or oils that can manipulate all the naughty bits.
  • Sound; Use mediation of some type of music with NO LYRICS… I guess it’s annoying if you are singing during your exploration.

Start Here

In this Intimacy Exercise, the mind must be fucked first, FOR THEN the BODY will FOLLOW. Using your words to excite your partner is key. Send a sexy text, write a note, send a few images. Get them excited and in their heads so that their body will quickly follow. Overall, I would say, start literally at the top and work your way down on the body during your exploration. Don’t let them have all the pressure or pleasure until you want them to have it…. Explore, Torture and then Conquer!

Verbal Guide

Verbally or audibly ask questions and make comments! For the discoveree, respond to your partner’s touch and questions.

Both can Use their 5 senses to fill in words … adding to the excitement.

  • Taste … Tastes like,
  • Touch … Feels like,
  • Smell … Smells like,
  • Hear … Sounds like,
  • Look … Looks like,

Check In’s

There should always be a check in from the discoverer…. The explorer should use a way to measure the stimulation or feelings of the explored.

  • 1-10 Scale
  • RED, Yellow, YES! …. Greeeeennnn!!!!!

Physical Guide

Physically, you can guide them as well. Moving their hand or pressing into them when things are feeling good. Just remember, Verbal responses are better communicated and more easily understood.


Test Areas using these techniques. Hands/digits are good, but as you get deeper into your research go ahead use some toys and tools.

  • Tickle ~Feather
  • Rub
  • Pat ~Crop
  • Pinch ~Nipple Clamps
  • Slap ~Paddle
  • Suck/Suction ~Womanizer
  • Lick
  • Scratch ~Vampire Glove, Wartenberg Wheel
  • Bite
  • Vibration ~Wand
  • Bondage ~Cuffs and Rope (tied down)
  • Hot & Cold ~Warming stones, Ice cubes, Probes

Skin & Position

Change is good in this exercise. Changing your position or your partners angle of your bodies, its parts or its skin in the smallest ways, can change making or breaking its stimulation. A result can be change orgasmically by the slightest movement of the skin in the most intimate areas. A tightening of an area of skin, even in the most minute of ways, makes a HUGE change in the sensation the person is having. So move your partner around, stretch the skin your working with, change your angles and positions.


This Body Exploration exercise will deepen your marriage’s intimacy, your carnal knowledge of one another. You must map out where you go and it’s no different in this Body Exploration exercise, map it out or Journal your discoveries… Even MAP them. Make sure to share these thoughts in your next Downtime!

Just like the planets in the sky or the bottom of the ocean, your partner’s body needs a lot of on going exploration. Time also changes a body and its preferences, so an annual review or Body Exploration Scene is always good idea. So, after this exploration of your heavenly bodies, you should get out your subMrs Journal or your husDOM little-black-book and write your experience, the results if you will.

Questions to Ask or to Be Found

  • What does your spouse respond most positively to, the areas and what stimulation?
  • What was their negative responses? Where and when did they happen?
  • Where and what areas would you like to explore further next time?
  • What areas would your partner want explored further?
  • What was their TOP 3 ?
  • How can you explore better next time?
  • Add toys or tools next time? Which Ones?

Your Quest

A quest, this dynamic and exercise is a true quest, a quest for knowledge and intimacy. A quest is a journey toward a specific mission or a goal. The word serves as a plot device in mythology and fiction: a difficult journey towards a goal, often symbolic or allegorical. Tales of quests figure prominently in the folklore of every nation and ethnic culture.  Marriage’s Sexiest Secret is a true “QUEST FOR FIRE”.

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  1. My Integrative Health Doctor actually suggested something similar to this since my libido has been so low since peri menopause set in.  My Sir was, of course,  all in!  Lol.  It has been eye opening to say the least….for both of us.  
    How sad that female pleasure has not been explored, studied, and written about to the extent male pleasure has….and let’s face it….porn and other erotic videos are mostly for men.  No one explores the HOW of women’s pleasure.  Women don’t even understand it or realize how their own pleasure works.
    Thank you, LK, for writing this and for posting it again!  It couldn’t have CUM at a better time for me! 😘

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