Submissive| D/s-M Lifestyle | The Secret

You see that couple? The couple holding hands and staring into one another’s eyes.
They appear to have something between them. What is their secret?
They can’t keep there hands off each other. The heat is there.. That fire deep in your belly you’ve forgotten… She has that. You can see it. The suggestive manner that they look at one another. You wish your husband would look at you that way.

His hand grazes her low back and dares to brush lower. Those fingers you imagine pulling at your flesh. She takes his hand as he reaches for her and pulls her into him. When was the last time you and your husband felt one another … skin on skin?

There’s a magnetism between the two. His eyes stalk her body. You study his keen awareness of her every move. Her eyes hold some type of promise to him. She moves as if she’s putting on a show for him. Slow and methodical, she licks her lips. You turn away before they see you stare.

That night as you slip your coat on… Where is your husband? Why is he not helping you with your coat as you saw the lovely man from earlier, helping his wife… He treated her more like his mistress… What you saw in their eyes as they were leaving… It made your insides ache….

This could be your secret, the secret between you and your husband.

This couple practices BDSM. What is BDSM?

BDSM is a variety of erotic practices including dominance and submission, role-playing, restraint, and other interpersonal dynamics.

BDSM is an acronym of B&D (Bondage & Discipline).
Bondage is the state of being bound by or subjected to some external power or control. Also, the state or practice of being physically restrained. Being tied up or chained.

Discipline as in training or conditions imposed for the improvement of physical powers or self-control. The systematic training in obedience to regulations and authority, resulting from such training or conditions, such as punishment or chastisement. A system of rules for behaviour, methods of practice or ritual.

D&S (Dominance & Submission), and S&M (Sadomasochism). Sadomasochism is defined as is the giving and/or receiving of pleasure—often sexual—from acts involving the infliction or reception of pain or humiliation. Practitioners of sadomasochism usually seek out sexual gratification from these acts, but often seek out other forms of pleasure as well. The terms sadist and masochist refer to one who either enjoys giving pain (sadist), or one who enjoys receiving pain (masochist). This is all done between two consensual adults.

Usually planned and reviewed regularly.

A form of BDSM is the practice of Domination/submission, D/s, in our case D/s~M (Married) . Dominance and submission is a set of behaviors, customs and rituals involving the submissive giving control over to the Dominate in an erotic episode or as a lifestyle. In D/s, both parties take pleasure or erotic enjoyment from either dominating or being dominated. Those who take the superior position are called dominants, doms (male) or dommes (female), while those who take the subordinate position are called submissives or subs (male or female). A switch is an individual who plays in either role. Two switches together may negotiate and exchange roles several times in play.

Now, as you’re leaving and getting in your car.. You have a choice… Continue being regular “Vanilla” married couple… Go home, get in your granny P.J.’s go to sleep, like every other night with barely a peck on the cheek. Or, you can grab your husbands hand lead him to the car, get in and suggest that you look into this great thing you just read about called D/s… Kiss him deeply and let your hands wonder…. Then ask him to “Take” you home…
As you’re driving down the dark road with a feeling of renewed romance… Your husband looks at you and says…. ” Did you see that couple at the party?” The ones all over each other. They were heating up the whole room!

You giggle and say…. No, I wish you would have pointed them out!

❤❤LK❤❤

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  1. I love having this secret… our secret… our dirty little secret!!!! I love when my sir opens the car door or the building door we are about to step into… the fact that he pays all his attention to me when we walk into a crowded room or just when its us in the bedroom… The gentleman that he has once again become… Our vanilla world was so routine and after reading FSOG , the pull to the D/s-M lifestyle was just that.. a pull and force… I too took my sirs hand and lead him to the bedroom as I knelt before him and asked for this journey and thank god he was watching “that couple” and agreed to be my dom!! No going back to the granny pjs and kisses on the cheek…. Its all thong and tongue from here on out!!
    Great post once again lady!!!

    xoxo
    sweetness

  2. Lk how I remember reading this post when you first wrote it. I wanted to be that couple when I started searching about D/s. When I asked my Sir to take this journey I never imagine that I would become that couple. Now there is no turning back there is only moving forward and it will only get better with time and hard work keeping it fresh.
    Lt♥

  3. LK what a wonderful post. Though I was not someone who saw this in others because My Master treated me this way always in your lives and love together, the imagery is great. I found my way to this lifestyle for other reasons. Mostly because the feelings in this lifestyle are very organic for us. I am so thankful for the beautiful new dynamic and what it has brought and meant to My Master and I. All True Gentlemen deserve a lady at there side. We took that “dark drive” and wow what a trip so far. Master Grey’s Beautiful

  4. Lovely! Yes, it is quite nice to allow him to be the gentleman he is and to not get into that head game I grew up with, “I am woman, hear me roar… I don’t NEED a man!” We were so stupid. There’s a couple at church that I’m almost positive must be D/s– it’s as you describe, his hand is always somewhere on her body, and not just holding hands, but his hand gripping her so very possessively. It makes me melt, and now that we are sitting by them a lot at church, I think it has inspired my DH. Months ago I recall feeling so sad that he wouldn’t “claim me” in public by holding hands or touching me… and now he does it regularly. It feels good to be among those who have that “special something!” Hope you are all doing well–I don’t get on here as much as I’d like, since it seems I have to log in every time and I’m horrible at remembering passwords!

  5. Just happened across your site today. Of the posts I’ve read so far this is my favorite. Absolutely the most beautifully intimate secret. I can’t help but beam when my girlfriend’s ask what my secret is. “if I told you it wouldn’t be a secret.”

  6. I love this ! I’ll likely paste a portion of my response on the new question in the forum now about whether to be open or secretive about the lifestyle with outsiders, friends family, co-workers… that’s where I got the link to this.
    People have always commented on the relationship between Sir and I, and have regularly made comments like “get a room you two”, and “they seem like two kids in love” (20-25+ yrs later), so the difference between their relationship and ours was already quite apparent to them. If they were to know now that we are engaged in the D/s-M lifestyle, they’d likely assume that we always have been, and think “Well, NO wonder!”.
    I personally do not care who knows about our lifestyle and I’d be quite open about it, with Sir’s permission. I will seek his permission before I do that though. I am not sure how he feels right now about being open about it to ‘the world’. I’ll ask. <3 🙂 Thank you for sharing!