The way a Dom touches his submissive is very important to the exchange. There’s a fine line of being forceful yet respectful compared to brutal and disrespectful. I thought I would list some of the ways my Dom touches me that I love.
I like the dominance I experience from his hand to my skin. In these hands I feel taken care of and supported. Like I’m falling and he’s catching me. He’s always catching me. I’m flying and floating above. He’s holding me up and back at the same time. His touch pulls out the most feminine part of me.
I feel him touch the small of my back. The very lowest curve. The strength of the touch will tell you his mood. He will show his ownership to others by placing his hands on my back. He will push the small of my back to let me know were running
behind and to quicken my step. Always threatening to dip lower… Wanting that dip…. I push back against his hand.
One of the most erotic touches is his hand on the back of my neck. He guides me with this touch. He lets me know the strength in his meanings with this touch. He will take not only my neck with this touch but my soul as well. He guides me to my knees… So I may show him my submission.
When we are entertaining or visiting with vanilla friends he will be seated and pull me to sit in his lap. It is not a request but a demand. The secret we hold is soo rich.He stares into my eyes as if to show me his power even among the vanilla. He will then touch my neck and my back moving in small circles. Those seductive circles that he uses in our play. It makes me squirm feeling the lengthening going on underneath my seat. My heart quickens and I wait in anticipation for us to say our goodbyes.
Our hands will touch and our fingers entwine together. Sounds innocent just as any other couple holds hands. Not my Dom he will pull my fingers inevitably up to his mouth covering my knuckles with the seductive kisses. Soon, he will be staring at me taking each finger into his mouth tasting and taunting them. Scraping his teeth on the pad of each finger sometime slowly sometimes vicious quick bites. As if its what he’s planning to do to my nipples later…. Yikes……
These touches are always done respectfully. He opens his palm as I lean into it showing him more submission. He bends his finger ever so slight and slowly rubs his knuckle along the curve of my jaw or along my cheek or throat, appreciating me. I push into him. I might be purring if I was a cat.
These are just a few touches I’m mentioning. Before, when vanilla, we may have touched this way.
Now, these touches are more meaningful. The communication is very deep and very controlled. Honesty and no manipulation. Just feel and nothing more…………….
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