Thank you all for coming out for the new sub chat last night…. It was huge a success. We talked about foundations and getting that “formal acceptance” from your husDom.
At the end of chat the discussion we spoke about self image. Seeing ourselves through our Dom’s eyes.
We bring our baggage with us when we look into the “looking glass” .
Below, I will describe an exercise that will help you with self esteem. I will be describing in essence our “Mirror Scene”. The full scene we keep private but I can reveal enough that you can then make it your own. ~LK
What do you see when you look in the mirror? If you’re like me you are your worst enemy.
What Does your Sir see in that same mirror when you step in front of it? Find out….
How do we learn to love our bodies like our Sirs do?
When you can learn to love your body, you can use it, sharpen it and make it work for your Sir like NEVER before.
Get comfortable touching yourself… for him…. for you.
Here is an exercise that you accomplish with your Sir that will help you in these areas.
This exercise should be repeated until you can run through it smoothly. I am warning you this can be psychologically painful and you will cry. I think a dim lit room is good to start with….
Make sure your room is warm. You don’t want cold chills. Add low playing music if it helps you relax.
You stand in front of a full length mirror and your Sir stands behind you.
Your Sir will be firm but kind…. You will be expected to use Red to stop or Yellow for pause or slow. If Red is called you will stop and get your clothes back on and talk to your Sir in downtime afterwards. Yellow will give you pause but only if your Sir allows it.
You will be removing your clothes one piece at a time starting at the top and working your way down. (Unless, you want to start with just a robe on.) Folding each piece of clothing neatly and setting it aside. After you remove each piece of clothing you look at that part of your body, point, and tell your Sir what you see in the mirror. In turn he will tell you what he sees. He however can not use his hands he will instruct you to touch in places that he would like you to touch for him. You will be turning around for him as well…DON’T forget the backside! You are not allowed to touch him during this exercise. I have found that if you do touch him, then the exercise becomes drawn out . Once you complete the exercise though it’s entirety then feel free to go onto play or have a scene…
If you have to stop ..it’s alright… talk about it afterward. But, you have to start all over again..do not pick up where you left off. If you called yellow its only for a quick breath and then continue. If you take too long, I would have to advise your Sir to push you along ..a small swat on the behind to keep the exercise moving. If you break the momentum, the meaning gets lost.
As you repeat this exercise your Sir can instruct you to manipulate parts of you for him… the next time he may join you nude. He may want you to pleasure him. Once comfortable, make this your own Mirror Scene…
But for now this exercise is for you to learn to love your body. Get comfortable with being his tool. Seeing yourself as he sees you.
Any questions please email me at LK@subMrs.com
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