BDSM| Submissive| Give In…. Surrender
I have gotten many emails……. Talking about how it’s hard to “give up” your control outside the bedroom. You want this dynamic.. You want it to spill out into your everyday life…. You are a submissive. How bad do you want it? How much do you need it?
You are NOT giving up… change your thinking, THINK SUBMISSSIVE.... Think of it as GIVING IN... SURRENDER YOURSELF…. You’re giving him, your DOM, giving him those final decisions… Giving him your inner stress. Handing it over for him to help with those decisions. You feed your Sir by doing this. It will build your Sir’s Dom…. Again, an exchange happens & you feed each other.
My Sir will take an issue for me ….I will hand it to him and he will break it down into smaller bites…Manageable pieces. I look at this as a bonus. Yes, there are subjects that you will broach that will be hard to negotiate, things like children & finances.
A good Dom takes your input like normal and makes the final decision. Not much changes in discussion except as a sub you let go and he makes the final decision and usually states why…
Keep reminding yourself…. My Sir will reward me and feed me for surrendering to him…
Best Wishes in Submission,
Little Kaninchen
LK
