Growing Your Own Dominant Husband, husDOM | The Night My Dominant Arrived | Your Very Own Christian Grey

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Growing Your Own Dominant Husband, husDOM

(Your Very Own Christian Grey)

The Night My Dominant Arrived

We’ve practiced and done scenes now almost a year. He was my husband until Sunday night. His true Dom came to fruition. I watched my husband turn into a Dom over top of me. His eyes became very dark. His mouth curled up in the corners. His hands rough and soft at the same time. His voice… Deeper. No forgiveness or asking permission or apologizing. No weakness, no wondering …. Just his Dom.
A stranger I’ve never truly met. I was almost scared. I didn’t know where he was going and what actions were going to happen next. There’s a man taking me.. Complete control from the beginning. Taking what he wanted and telling me what he was taking. It’s taken me so long to put it into words. I still am suffering from a stupor… A wonderful and fabulous stupor.

This is a new time for D/s … After Fifty Shades, (AFF) So many woman want their own Christian Grey.  They are married and their children are aging. We are taking great care of our bodies and being able to recognize our wants and now seeing its ok to reach out and ask for it! Tell them we have to have it. We want to create our own husDoms…. We can have it all.

This is a newer concept. I’m heading up this concept. Creating Your husDom,  New territory. Will be forged. This is a new chapter.  Husbands do change! Things so deliciously recognizable. I tell my story and many other’s using the community. …. It’s possible to have your marriage and have Dominance and Submission! 

Grow Your Own Mr. Grey

Back to my original reason for this post. His Dominant…. We’ve worked together.. I’ve trusted and tried to be patient. This very night… He really became my husDom… Our journey has had a “Moment” … No More Training Wheels. Something has changed… In him… He was so comfortable in taking that control. His words so raw and powerful. It felt sooo right…

 His touch was very clear. This was his need, not something he was doing just for me. This was for him..His hunger.  The pain and pleasure he gave me that night, I’m still wearing his bruises proudly like “Badges of Honor”… This was unfamiliar. It was given differently and accepted with all my submission.
He’s arrived…

Sir did forward me a post from his blog on . That night must have made a mark with him as well for some reason because he posted about it.  Our exchange that night was so Special. I will remember it FOREVER. In the mean time… All you women out there working with your husbands … Keep going, be patient, its going to happen… I’m living proof!

Keep Planting the seed ( your submission ) and he will grow….


Original Date: 3/13, PD IMAGE

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    1. Thank you… It was a pleasant surprise..

    1. Thank you… Sir will be home next Tuesday and I’m hoping he will let loose again… ❤❤❤

    1. Thank you for following…
      Our journey has been one to write about that’s for sure!

  1. Congrats LK! Sounds like it was a fun night! Love the title. 🙂

  2. Oh, goose bumps up and down my spine.All that you deserve,both of you! Thank you for sharing it with us!

  3. This gives me inspiration to keep giving my submission and watching my Sir grow more into my hus/dom. Thank you 🙂

  4. Reading this again. Inspiring me to remember that my submission is for both of us – through him it comes back to me.

  5. Love this post and very much hoping for ‘that’ day! Could you tell us the post on the HusDom site please? Would like to pass it along.

  6. Oh just the inspiration I needed this week. I look forward to meeting that side of Sir. I do see little glimpses. As I am sure he sees glimpses of me. We are growing together.

    Reading your posts and talking to the lovely subbies on here has made me much more aware of the way we interact. The things I do that feed his Dom and he in return feeds me.

    Thank-you again x

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