Clit Play | Sexual Play Technique subMrs™

Welcome to Marriage’s Sexiest Secret, where we dive into intimate techniques that empower your pleasure and deepen connection. Today’s topic? Clit play—a.k.a. “pussy play”—a practice focused entirely on the clitoris, the pleasure powerhouse of the female body.

Whether you’re flying solo or exploring with a partner, this guide will help you get clit-literate, try new techniques, and maybe even experience pleasure like never before.

What Is Clit Play (a.k.a. Clit Torture)

Clit play, sometimes cheekily referred to as “clit torture,” is a focused form of stimulation targeting the clitoral area. But don’t let the term scare you—it’s all about controlled intensity and maximum pleasure.

Clitoral play can be light and teasing, deep and intense, or a little bit of both. It’s for everyone, whether you’re exploring solo or with a partner.

How Clit Play Works

This kind of stimulation involves touching the clitoris—using clean fingers, toys, or even household items. The goal is to arouse the thousands of nerve endings located there (over 8,000, to be exact!). And it’s not just about the small nub you see externally—the clitoris extends deep inside the body.

Think of clitoral play as sexual artistry—your partner (or you) is the artist, and the clit is the masterpiece.

Let’s Get Clit-Literate

It’s wild how many people are still “il-cliterate.” Until recently, science barely touched on the clitoris. It wasn’t even fully mapped in medical literature until the late 1990s, and the first MRI was in 2005!

🔥 Fascinating Clit Facts

“Clitoris” comes from the Greek word for “key.”
It has 8,000+ nerve endings, more than any other body part.
The clitoris includes both external and internal structures.
Its internal shape is like a wishbone.
The G-spot is part of the internal clitoral network.
The clit can swell up to 300% when aroused.
It grows throughout life—up to 7x its size from birth to post-menopause.
Its only function? Pure pleasure.
During orgasm, it produces 3–16 contractions, lasting 10–30 seconds.
It has “legs” (crura and bulbs) that fill with blood like a penis.

The Science Behind the Clit

That first MRI in 2005 revealed that the clitoris extends deep inside, including the Skene’s glands, often referred to as the female prostate. The internal part is also what some call the Goddess Spot—yes, the infamous G-spot is part of the clit! It’s all connected, and it’s all about receiving pleasure.

Clit Play: Methods & Tools

💋 Techniques to Try

Want to spice things up? Switch up:

Rhythm – Slow and sensual or fast and fiery?
Pressure – Light feathering, firm squeeze, or PINCH!
Direction – Try circles, zigzags, or up-and-down strokes.
Finger count – One, two… more?

Learning to layer all these techniques and their sensations leads to the ultimate pleasure experience. Alternate between external clit stimulation and internal penetration (especially the front vaginal wall). This combo can lead to powerful blended orgasms.

🛠️ Tools of the Trade

Fingers & toes – Rub, pinch, squeeze
Hands – Spank, massage, cup
Mouth/Tongue – Lick, suck, blow
Temperature play – Hot/cold creams, oils, gels
Feathers & brushes – Tease the skin
Clamps & clips – Apply pressure (with care)
Vibrators – Internal or external stimulation
Suction toys – Like Womanizer or pussy pumps
G-spot dildos/probes
TENS units – Light electric stimulation
Rope or rubber bands – For gentle binding (see safety tips)

⚠️ Safety First: Binding & Pressure Play

Clit bondage can be thrilling but requires caution:

Start with 3–5 minutes, max out at 20 minutes.
Always allow blood flow—don’t bind too tightly.
If you’re going longer, loosen pressure periodically.

Cutting off circulation can cause tissue damage—so listen to your body and prioritize safety.

Respecting Clit Limits

Every clit is unique. Take time to explore and communicate with your partner (or yourself!). Discover what feels best, what turns you on, and what pushes you over the edge—in a good way.

This is your permission to explore, slow down, and learn your personal clit-limits.

Now you know another of Marriage’s Sexiest Secrets. Stay curious. Stay sexy. 💋