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submissive’s Muse, Feelings & Notions


I thought I would start a new topic here in the blog.  I want to call it,  submissive’s Muse, Feelings and Notions.  Sometimes, I see something on T.V. or hear a lyric in a song, these things will spur me to have these submissive feelings or notions. These can be deep or they can be a quick fun thought or feeling. Please think on them yourself and or apply them to your D/s-M. I would love to hear your comments on how they made you think or how you applied them today.

My Muse today is the word….. HEDONIST. Just saying it makes me feel hot, horny and a little dirty. What is Hedonism? Google defines it as, the pursuit of pleasure; sensual self-indulgence.
synonyms: self-indulgence, pleasure-seeking, self-gratification, lotus-eating, sybaritism;
the ethical theory that pleasure (in the sense of the satisfaction of desires) is the highest good and proper aim of human life. Here I thought it was about the hotel where you can go nude and I believe they let couples have sex out in the open… LOL! I guess I was partially right.

I ask myself am I a hedonist? Do I believe in Hedonism? After looking into the subject I believe that I am. I wonder why more people are not. Life is short. You have a wonderful partner. Why not seek out all that you desire with your partner. Ask yourself today, What do I desire in my marriage? What do I desire in my D/s-M. Write what those desires are and sit and talk to your husDOM about them. Start working a plan on how to get there. Set your intensions and work toward them. Start living your life consciously aware.

And, by the way maybe we will see you in Jamaica….. Maybe a “Warren Gathering” there next year?

HUGS! Luv to hear your thoughts!

Little Kaninchen

Intimacy and Energy Coach

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  1. LK
    I thought that Hedonism was the same thing a hotel in an exotic location lol.. damn

    I love that you make us think and research and learn..thank you!! Funny thing that you mention Set intentions..just tonight I did my kneeling challenge and i used those exact words..Set Intention on how to feed my sir and how to be a better submissive.. this post just reassured my thoughts.


  2. LK,
    OOO YES, Just saying the words, thinking about it ; Excites , makes me wet ! Most of my Submrs friends know we were a Breath away of becoming a statistic , AKA Grey Divorce!
    So, my HusDom and I are tasting EVERYTHING right now ! I find the more you embrace who you are, the more you can FLY ! The more we feed, desire each other the HUNGRIER we both are !
    OOO Gathering in Jamaica ..we have been there one big PARTY !

    D/sm Happily Ever After,

  3. When I think of Hedonism I too think of the resort. I am a hedonist. I am all about seeking out pleasure and probably more self indulgence than I should at times…lol I think most people probably are they just associate the work with the word with something they may not feel is acceptable or at least to others, such as nudists and exhibitionism. 😉 A warren gathering there that would be awesome! As my Sir and I have looked into either going to Hedonism II or Desire for a vacation next year. (was looking for this year but grandbaby due in Oct makes that almost impossible, so next spring would be perfect!!!)

  4. I love this LK! So well written and true! I am completely with you on indulgence and trying everything! Life is short, so make it count. I look at vanilla friends and can’t imagine going back to the “I hate sex” feeling most of them have. Or seeing sex as a chore, instead of an expression of the two of you and a way to enjoy your body! When you are having fun and living your life to the fullest you become more able to help others live their life to the fullest. To give, you must have enough to give out.

    “Life’s journey is not to arrive at the grave safely in a well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, totally worn out, shouting ‘Holy shit…what a ride!’”

    – Hunter S. Thompson

  5. Love the post Lk and yes hedonist is about total pleasure, receiving or given. In Ancient Egypt they used songs that contained hedonistic elements, calling guests to submit to pleasure because they cannot be sure that they will be rewarded for good with a blissful afterlife. Now me being a masochist I don’t think I would like pleasure without pain. (Ethical hedonism is the idea that all people have the right to do everything in their power to achieve the greatest amount of pleasure possible to them. It is also the idea that every person’s pleasure should far surpass their amount of pain.) I am the total opposite. Lol! PARTY in Jamaica sounds wild!!!!