“Just when you thought it was safe to go back in the water.”- JAWS …. Along cums ..^ < … Cue the music…. “THE SHARK WEEK CHALLENGE!” AAHHH !!! This year is our first year of posting this subMrs Challenge. The challenge is for all subMrs and husDOM community members. This exercise will challenge married couples to “sink their teeth” into a fun and playful role-play, Biting Role-play. This role-play will inspire you and your Sir into some awesome PRIMAL Sexual Encounters and Emotions and maybe into a new and exciting FETISH! This challenge will help build that “D|s-M Atmosphere” that we all are searching and hoping for!
First, some background on Shark Week. When Shark Week aired for the first time on July 17, 1988, its purpose was the focus on conservation efforts and correcting many of the common misconceptions about sharks. Over the years, it has grown to be a cultural phenomenon on the Discovery Channel Network. You will see many stars trying their hand or trying to lose a hand at working with these sharks in one way or another.
I have personally watched shark week since it began. I’ve always had a great interest in sharks since I was 14 when I had a “close encounter” with one in Florida on vacation. I believe I have some destiny with one…hopefully, not in the belly of one. The idea of being bitten by a shark is NOT one of my turn-on’s, but being bitten in Vampire role-play or just in the right place, during a scene is one of my absolute favorite things.
While it is Shark Week this week, July 11-18th, Mr. Fox and I wanted to post a great exercise for couples to challenge themselves to. This week, enter by posting your images in our Challenge & Exercise Group of your BEST BITES or SUCK MARKS! (Some sharks do suck!) You will be judged on the part of the body, the number of bites, the clearness of bite marks, and if you were actually watching shark week while you got the bite/s. There is always extra credit for backdrops and creativity! At the end of the week, Mr. Fox and I will decide who will get the SHARK WEEK REWARD!
Please no faces and keep it classy (NO CHUM)…. LOL!
Sexual biting is a passionate and animalistic behavior that emerges when people are highly aroused. Not all biting arousal is sexual. You can see proof of this in the animal kingdom… sometimes, even your domestic cat, gets excited and bites when excited or worked up, just for fun, hopefully, NO SEXUAL connection… LOL!
Half of all people surveyed have had experienced sexual arousal from biting or being bitten. Now, there can be all ranges of biting from romantic nibbles to hardcore & no preparation or warnings kind of BITES! Biting many times is done in a show of control or ownership. This is the case in Married Dominance and Submission. A subMrs will often get off on the fear related to the knowledge that she is about to be bitten.
Odaxelagnia and BDSM
The term odaxelagnia is a sexual deviation involving sexual arousal through biting or being bitten. Odaxelagnia is considered to be a mild form of sadomasochism, per Wiki. People who enjoy pain will sometimes begin to associate certain forms of pain as relief, rather than a negative response to something. This also ties this topic to BDSM as it is a form of pain to pleasure release.
Why do we like being bitten? Some submissive’s love just the pain of the actual bite. Some like the sexual pleasure or intimacy that is brought on or built many times after the bite. In that first scenario, the pain of being bitten or bleeding due to being bitten in some people causes a sense of euphoria. Some Dr.’s say this comes from the boost of adrenaline that comes with that arousal. The second scenario, the fantasy of it all, the role-play of vampirism, being the victim. These examples can be very heady and a tap into those primal emotions like “fight or flight”.
Why do our Sirs like to bite? Dominants like to bite because it is primal and animalistic as well as biting can be their way of showing their control over their submissive. The Dominant many times loves to be the cause of an intense stimulation or sensation. Your response to his bites is what makes him go wild! Biting could be his fetish or him giving into your fetish.
Areas Most Bitten
The best areas to be bitten are usually the Erogenous zones. The erogenous zones are parts of the body that excite sexual feelings when touched or stimulated. They may be genital or extragenital (e.g. neck, breasts, lips, buttocks, and arch of the foot). Extragenital erogenous zone stimulation during foreplay can be very important for women to reach orgasm.
- Discuss Pre-Play (Downtime) Intensity: Nibble, Bite, Chomp
- What areas do you use what intensities?
- Don’t just Bite: Add licking, sucking, and other stimulations.
- Hormonal Cycles: Nipples and genitals get more sensitive during cycles (Even menopausal women have cycles!)
- Start Slow: Nibble at first and work up in intensity.
- Prepare the Area: Your partner may like bitten area prepared before bites, massaged, vibrated, or spanked.
- Be verbal: Safe Word, Red-Yellow-Green, Doms to check-ins (1-10), subs let him know when it’s REALLY GOOD!
- Discuss Post-Play (Downtime): What worked, where does the intensity or the bite work better next time?
Biting Your Sir
I needed to take or write a “small bite” on mutual biting or bitting your Sir where he may want to be bitten. Most Sirs, if asked, would say they don’t like being bitten. Once bitten, twice shy… NOPE!!… I would say ask your Sir if you can do an “experiential bite” during some play… They may change their mind and love your bite! I have posted his erogenous zones so you may explore!
If he loves the feeling of a bite already, you can sink your teeth into him in any way he wishes! Biting your husDOM can show your Sir the love you have for him. You can kind of compare it to giving him a hickey. Some Sirs like the shaft or inside of their legs marked. If he likes it, you LUV it !! Traveling Sirs can have your bite to look at when he is away.
If you like this subMrs homework then you should see the subMrs Calendar, every month I post lots of fun exercises to inspire sexual play. Please ask your Sir to register on husDOM where he can find out even more about biting!