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Kindsight | Positive Energy

submissive Mindset & Energy


Kindsight: To reflect on the past with an optimistic and positive attitude.

We all have some regret.  The decisions we’ve made in the past, things we’ve done or haven’t done that come to haunt us all at one time or another.  It’s easy to get caught up in the what’s wrong or why we did something,  then what we may have ever done right.   Why is it so hard to be kind to ourselves when looking back?  That part of your life has already been written.  From today on look back at what was or what you have done and have some kindsight  Ask yourself what have I learned from the past?  We all change and situations have now evolved. Don’t get stuck in the past when looking forward.  It’s time to take that negative energy and make it into positive energy.  Time to focus on your future making what you can happen actually happen.  It’s all in the mindset!  You’re in control of your future.


Understand yourself then you can be more tolerable of others.  Be kind…….. You can see here on this site, this community that we try very hard to keep the energy here positive. So stay positive and like energy attracts.  Say hello to a submissive today on the Live submissive Chatroom.





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  1. hispetitelle 6 years ago

    I find that I pay attention more. I look for the subtle things and try to read Sir better. I know he appreciates the fact that I can anticipate some of his needs and be ready for him.

    • littlekaninchen 6 years ago

      Doms love when you anticipate and ready yourself for them… ❤❤❤❤

  2. Pretty Primal 6 years ago

    Go slow, take deliberate educated steps. Do not let others push or rush you.

  3. soumiskitten 6 years ago

    I haven’t really learned this I guess, it just happened. But my memory is a lot better now. When Master gives me a list of things to do verbally or something like that, I remember everything to the T. Not so much before we started D/s, I’m normally forgetting everything.

    • littlekaninchen 6 years ago

      Being a submissive we want to please our Sirs… Memorizing is a way to please them.
      Thanks for commenting… ❤

  4. Lily 4 years ago

    I have learned that if Sir wants me to do something that seems vanilla I should not complain either outwardly or inwardly. If He wants it of me, then I will give my %110 regardless of the nature of the request/command because that IS what submission is about. We can’t live in a fairytale and be made to cum 24/7 (too bad) and our lives are NOT going to be the way they are presented in erotica. Sometimes I DO need to be told to weed the overgrown garden! I have learned to do these things as best I can with a smile … and a tight blouse and mini to tempt Him to pull me inside the house before I finish lol. (giggles)

    • LK Founder D|s-M 4 years ago

      Vanilla??? Yes it is all about learning to submit and I know that y Sir will request things and if he may think its something that there maybe a stumble on he will talk to me first about it on a downtime. But, once you both know you have one another’s backs and only want the best for one another then any request is a good one.. HUGS! Thanks for commenting.. LK

  5. His Liz 3 years ago

    I have learned it is for me mostly about a mindset. If we are positive then most of this walk shall be. When I question and doubt, we stumble.
    Reward is a two way street. Doms need it as much if not more. For it is a lot of work on there part to mold a vanilla life/wife into a D/s-M.

  6. Filina Ambassador 2 years ago

    I am still learning how important mindset is. It’s so hard for me sometimes to stay in the right one. I am always looking for ways to remind myself of where my mind should be.

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