I realize my Mindful Monday is late.
These posts are about how to stay mindful. How to keep your D/s, your submission top priority. Keeping your submission on the forefront will keep the atmosphere around you and your Sir perfect for growth and fun!
I was thinking about all subs this week. How some subs are challenged with a new Dom and keeping them on tract and thinking about their D/s and the expectations that go along with that. The lifestyle has responsibilities for both parties. Subs sometimes feel like they are putting in a lot of sub but not getting the Dom back in return. First of all try not to think that way. Remember he is new as well. It’s really up to you at this point to “guide” your D/s.
You have to keep the atmosphere fueled with your submission and sex for his Dom to appear and his mind to stay thinking of your new dynamic. EVENTUALLY…..girls they catch on to the dynamic and the guidance is no longer needed. (training wheels come off)…That is a whole other post…
This week….I’m almost a week off but this is an easy thing to do… Still, put your mind into it. The better and more exact info you give the better!
This weekend I want all subs to make a list of their TURN ON”S and give it to your Sir.
For Example : Sexual (positions or body part, ect ), music or movies, places, foods, smells, clothing, household items ( I luv new sheets) characteristics (personality or body) , animals (LOL! , like… I luv foxes…)
A Few things that turn me on…….
Vampires, I luv to be bitten!
Whispers in my ear.
Runway lights at night. The heat coming off the pavement and the smell of the burnt jet fuel.
High Rise Love and satin panties, both on my list!
Doves, They mate for life.
I love sound of a dove calling at twilight.
These are just a few things…
Now go make your list!