Mindful Monday

I realize my Mindful Monday is late.

These posts are about how to stay mindful. How to keep your D/s, your submission top priority. Keeping your submission on the forefront will keep the atmosphere around you and your Sir perfect for growth and fun!

I was thinking about all subs this week. How some subs are challenged with a new Dom and keeping them on tract and thinking about their D/s and the expectations that go along with that. The lifestyle has responsibilities for both parties. Subs sometimes feel like they are putting in a lot of sub but not getting the Dom back in return. First of all try not to think that way. Remember he is new as well. It’s really up to you at this point to “guide” your D/s.

You have to keep the atmosphere fueled with your submission and sex for his Dom to appear and his mind to stay thinking of your new dynamic. EVENTUALLY…..girls they catch on to the dynamic and the guidance is no longer needed. (training wheels come off)…That is a whole other post…

This week….I’m almost a week off but this is an easy thing to do… Still, put your mind into it. The better and more exact info you give the better!

This weekend I want all subs to make a list of their TURN ON”S and give it to your Sir.

For Example : Sexual (positions or body part, ect ), music or movies, places, foods, smells, clothing, household items ( I luv new sheets) characteristics (personality or body) , animals (LOL! , like… I luv foxes…)

A Few things that turn me on…….


Vampires, I luv to be bitten!

Whispers in my ear.

Runway lights at night. The heat coming off the pavement and the smell of the burnt jet fuel.

High Rise Love and satin panties, both on my list!

 Doves, They mate for life.

I love sound of a dove calling at twilight.

These are just a few things…

Now go make your list!

Stay Mindful!







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  1. Awww…love this! There is no ‘like’ button any longer, right? I have to be careful not to hit that Facebook button. Lol.

      1. I gave Sir a list yesterday. I decided to make it lesser-known things instead of the really obvious. Plus, I could keep writing forever since I am always turned on by some random thing, or nothing at all. Lol. Can’t wait for next post. 🙂

        1. haha shygirl, I just sent my list to my Sir tonight and had the same problem! It took me days to write it because I am turned on my everything in the world. Glad I’m not the only one 🙂

          1. Just list your top 20… Your list will continue to lengthen. Some things will seem more mundane and you’ll be able to take them off and add new exciting things!

  2. Love your “List for your Dominant” concept and yet, for myself and Gem, I really don’t need a list, I have her list always on my mind and it is engrained in my soul… and will be for eternity…

    Thank you for your lovely thoughts on “our” combined post on my website recently… Gem is having WiFi problems at the moment and I am sure will catch up with everyone soon…

    “Our” best regards to you and your Sir…

    1. Thank you Joseph, Sir.
      I knew you both were still enamored with one another. I’m very happy for you both!
      As you get further in your journey it’s very true your Sir already knows your wants and what makes you purrrrrr…… Lol!

      Thank you for commenting.

      LK ❤️

  3. This is perfect for me right now. I am “out of commission” so to speak the next few weeks. Writing a list is something that I can definitely do.
    Great post LK! 🙂

  4. I told my Sir about my homework, and asked if he would like to do the same. He laughed and said, “no”. Then he added to the assignment. He also wants me to make a list of what I think turns him on.

    1. That’s good idea… List a bunch of things and then go through the list… It will open up the dialogue between you both and you will find out his wants… Really great… Let me know how it goes.
      LK ❤️

      1. Haha- my list keeps growing-We have been going one for one-I share then he shares. Funny- I did know a few of his-But there was a lot that I didn’t know–one both parties part. We have had a blast.

  5. What a good idea LK! Thanks for your wisdom and advice, as always. I will definitely be making my list! Mmmm, vampires, have to agree with you on that one! I love the feeling of teeth on my neck…

  6. My first official comment… I have been reading LK’s blog for awhile but have been too shy to post. I really like this idea!! Will definitely be doing this for my husband! ♥♥

  7. What a great assignment! This has been my philosophy in my d/s journey. I give my sir gentle guidance but my focus is on my role as a sub and pleasing him. I see the dom in him more and more with every session.
    I’m going to start my list today! 🙂