I realize my Mindful Monday is late.

These posts are about how to stay mindful. How to keep your D/s, your submission top priority. Keeping your submission on the forefront will keep the atmosphere around you and your Sir perfect for growth and fun!

I was thinking about all subs this week. How some subs are challenged with a new Dom and keeping them on tract and thinking about their D/s and the expectations that go along with that. The lifestyle has responsibilities for both parties. Subs sometimes feel like they are putting in a lot of sub but not getting the Dom back in return. First of all try not to think that way. Remember he is new as well. It’s really up to you at this point to “guide” your D/s.

You have to keep the atmosphere fueled with your submission and sex for his Dom to appear and his mind to stay thinking of your new dynamic. EVENTUALLY…..girls they catch on to the dynamic and the guidance is no longer needed. (training wheels come off)…That is a whole other post…

This week….I’m almost a week off but this is an easy thing to do… Still, put your mind into it. The better and more exact info you give the better!

This weekend I want all subs to make a list of their TURN ON”S and give it to your Sir.

For Example : Sexual (positions or body part, ect ), music or movies, places, foods, smells, clothing, household items ( I luv new sheets) characteristics (personality or body) , animals (LOL! , like… I luv foxes…)

A Few things that turn me on…….


Vampires, I luv to be bitten!

Whispers in my ear.

Runway lights at night. The heat coming off the pavement and the smell of the burnt jet fuel.

High Rise Love and satin panties, both on my list!

 Doves, They mate for life.

I love sound of a dove calling at twilight.

These are just a few things…

Now go make your list!

Stay Mindful!







  1. shygirl 6 years ago

    Awww…love this! There is no ‘like’ button any longer, right? I have to be careful not to hit that Facebook button. Lol.

    • LK Founder D|s-M 6 years ago

      Thanks girl! I’m working on a wonderful post now… That you’ll love!
      Let me know how your list goes. It will open up that dialogue that may have been forgotten.
      LK ❤️

      • shygirl 6 years ago

        I gave Sir a list yesterday. I decided to make it lesser-known things instead of the really obvious. Plus, I could keep writing forever since I am always turned on by some random thing, or nothing at all. Lol. Can’t wait for next post. 🙂

        • ShyOne 6 years ago

          haha shygirl, I just sent my list to my Sir tonight and had the same problem! It took me days to write it because I am turned on my everything in the world. Glad I’m not the only one 🙂

          • LK Founder D|s-M 6 years ago

            Just list your top 20… Your list will continue to lengthen. Some things will seem more mundane and you’ll be able to take them off and add new exciting things!

        • LK Founder D|s-M 6 years ago

          Thanks Girl! Glad things are good! Keep going!



  2. cailinfire 6 years ago

    Love this idea! The wheels are already turning with what I will put on my list! Great mindful post girl!♥

  3. Joseph McNamara 6 years ago

    Love your “List for your Dominant” concept and yet, for myself and Gem, I really don’t need a list, I have her list always on my mind and it is engrained in my soul… and will be for eternity…

    Thank you for your lovely thoughts on “our” combined post on my website recently… Gem is having WiFi problems at the moment and I am sure will catch up with everyone soon…

    “Our” best regards to you and your Sir…

    • LK Founder D|s-M 6 years ago

      Thank you Joseph, Sir.
      I knew you both were still enamored with one another. I’m very happy for you both!
      As you get further in your journey it’s very true your Sir already knows your wants and what makes you purrrrrr…… Lol!

      Thank you for commenting.

      LK ❤️

  4. NsK 6 years ago

    This is perfect for me right now. I am “out of commission” so to speak the next few weeks. Writing a list is something that I can definitely do.
    Great post LK! 🙂

    • LK Founder D|s-M 6 years ago

      Thanks NSK! Please make your list… Enjoy it!
      Hey…. We’re playing ball this week.
      Let’s talk on forum.. Make our wagers girl!

      LK ❤️

  5. Sirslittlebutterfly 6 years ago

    Love this assignment…this is doable…I might even add pictures!!!

  6. Kate 6 years ago

    Pondering- 🙂

  7. Kate 6 years ago

    I told my Sir about my homework, and asked if he would like to do the same. He laughed and said, “no”. Then he added to the assignment. He also wants me to make a list of what I think turns him on.

    • LK Founder D|s-M 6 years ago

      That’s good idea… List a bunch of things and then go through the list… It will open up the dialogue between you both and you will find out his wants… Really great… Let me know how it goes.
      LK ❤️

      • kate 6 years ago

        Haha- my list keeps growing-We have been going one for one-I share then he shares. Funny- I did know a few of his-But there was a lot that I didn’t know–one both parties part. We have had a blast.

  8. ShyOne 6 years ago

    What a good idea LK! Thanks for your wisdom and advice, as always. I will definitely be making my list! Mmmm, vampires, have to agree with you on that one! I love the feeling of teeth on my neck…

  9. Lts 6 years ago

    Great idea! Lk this My list may never end. Lol!

  10. Sweetness 6 years ago

    Great idea!!!! Heck I like my sis idea of adding pictures!! Thanks Lk for keeping us all on track!!

  11. sweet southern belle 6 years ago

    My first official comment… I have been reading LK’s blog for awhile but have been too shy to post. I really like this idea!! Will definitely be doing this for my husband! ♥♥

  12. LK Founder D|s-M 6 years ago

    I keep a running list on my cell phone in my notes. I add as I go… I then forward it to my Sir.
    LK ❤️

  13. lovelylady41 6 years ago

    What a great assignment! This has been my philosophy in my d/s journey. I give my sir gentle guidance but my focus is on my role as a sub and pleasing him. I see the dom in him more and more with every session.
    I’m going to start my list today! 🙂

  14. naturewitchy 6 years ago

    Love this idea. I’m very new to this. Have only talked about this with my husband up to now. So a list is a great way to start

  15. His pet 6 years ago

    I love this idea! It’s also perfect for where we are at right now. So excited to get started! Thanks so much!

  16. celly d 6 years ago

    will work on this too…out of commission due to gallbladder surgery….boo…

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