Playing/Dancing with yourself, wanking, jerking/beating off are common terms for Masturbation. Masturbation, defined as the sexual stimulation of one’s own genitals for sexual arousal or other sexual pleasure, most times to the point of orgasm.  This stimulation may be obtained with the hands, fingers, sex toys such as a vibrators, or combinations of these.

Being such taboo, masturbation has been captured in art since prehistoric times and many times an artists most important muse. Early writers have wrote about it, trying to possess or seize its feeling within their words. All religions through out time have altered views regarding masturbation. Some religions view it as a spiritually mischievous practice, described even as a depravity. Some see it not spiritually detrimental but look in the context within which the practice is/was done, even decreeing it acceptable. Legally, masturbation has also varied through history, today, masturbation in public is illegal in most countries. Here in the western world, when done in private or with a partner, masturbation is considered a normal, healthy a source of sexual enjoyment individually or as done as a couple.

Ancient Wanking

In ancient times the Sumerians & Egyptians engaged in masturbation frequently. To these ancients masturbation was enjoyed, shared, even considered as something godly. A Sumerian god was believed to have created rivers by masturbating and ejaculating into their empty riverbeds.  The Egyptians also regarded masturbation by a deity as an act of creation, for example the the an Egyptian god was believed to have created the universe by masturbating to ejaculation. The Greeks also regarded masturbation as a normal and healthy.  Many times writing about it in their comedies and picturing it on their pottery. In the Eastern (traditional Asian) parts of the world, they did and still consider masturbation to lower the energy level in men. Many times men ejaculating in middle eastern sexual techniques, such as tantra is discouraged for just this reason.

Main Types of Masturbation

Self masturbation is just as it states, an individual is stimulating themselves on their own. As mentioned earlier, self masturbation is achieved with stimulation of ones own self to orgasm or just to the “edge” of orgasm. Mutual masturbation, means that there is more than one person partaking in the activity at once. First, you and your partner are in the room self masturbating, keeping eye contact but only touching your own bodies. The term can also refer to partners manually stimulating each other, such as a man fingering a woman while she stimulates his genitals with her hand, or referred to as a hand job, both these being considered mutual masturbation.

Techniques of Masturbation

Male masturbation verses female masturbation, how do the techniques differ? There are so many masturbation techniques that are used in Dominance and submission. Would you like to use masturbation further in your relationship? There are scenes, exercises and challenges using masturbation in married Dominance and submission. To find out more and delve deeper into masturbation, upgrade your membership to premium and obtain premium level blog posts regarding masturbation & orgasm techniques.

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  1. Who knew that May is National Masturbation Month? I think back to when my daughters were of a proper age to talk about sex. Masturbation was a huge part of that discussion. My Sir and I wanted them to consider the act as being a healthy part of their sexual development and the exploration of their bodies. We did not want them to think of this as being taboo or something to be ashamed of. Though, being females Sir was rarely part of the actual conversation.

    As a D|s-M couple, my Sir will advise me when I am allowed to masturbate. Sometimes he likes a little video of photo sent to him. I oblige because I know it pleases him and is a huge turn on. He enjoys watching me masturbate as well. I used to be somewhat shy about doing this for him. Over time and with the tools of D|s-M, I have become more confident and actually enjoy doing this for him. I also enjoy watching him masturbate though this is rare.

    Now that I am mentally stimulated I think I’ll go play a little…… 😉

  2. So happy that this post can help people understand what masturbation is and bring awareness to it. Masturbation is NOT a dirty thing. There is a whole month dedicated to Masturbation. One little month, at least get one session in with yourself. You will be surprised what you learn about yourself. If its been a while, your body changes, get to know yourself all over again!