Clit Play

Clit play is a part of vulva (pussy) play with the concentration being on the clitoral area. This play can be also called clit torture. Clit play or torture is another great sexual play technique we talk about at Marriage’s Sexiest Secret. Clit torture is a a very pleasurable practice that anyone can participate single or with a partner.

This practice happens when a female’s clit, AKA, glans clitoris, is played with by giving “her” sensations digitally, using VERY CLEAN fingers, sex toys or even common household items. This play is all about stimulating the nerves of the clit, giving either the giver, receiver or both sexual satisfaction. Actually, most couples do not realize it’s not just about the external nub of the clitoris that everyone already knows about, but the INTERNAL clitoris! The act of clitoral play is an art, think of as sexual art, done by a partner, your personal artist.

Clit-Literate

Clit Facts, the world is just learning about the female’s clitoris. Many of are “il-cliterate”. Why you ask, because just in recent years science just started studying this part of a woman’s body. Sex in society as well has been undiscussed and unexplored. Sex has not been appreciated or explored until recent years. Think about it, couples that have been together for many years, had several children together have not explored their bodies and just what they are capable of.

Below are a few clit facts to get you clit-literate.

The word “Clitoris” is from the Greek work for “key”? Understanding your clitoris unlock your sex life. YES, back to THOSE LOVING GREEKS!

The clitoris is a nerve-dense body part responsible for orgasm.

The clitoris has the most nerve ending dense per square inch of any part of the human body, over 8,000 !
Inside the body, the clitoris has a whole hidden structure.
There are external and internal components to the clit.
The clit’s shape is often referred to as a wishbone, with some parts of being visible on the outside of the body, but with the majority of it being hidden inside the body.
She serves no biological function other than pleasure.
She is covered by a hood for protection from too much stimulation or can be raised to enjoy MORE exuberant torture!
It has legs, known as the crura and vestibular bulbs that wrap around the vagina. The legs and the bulbs contain erectile tissue that expands when sexually aroused just as a penis does.
The G-spot is a specific portion of the clit that can be stimulated internally.
The clit can swell as much as 300% when engorged with blood.
The clitoris increases in size from beginning puberty until after menopause, as much as seven times the size that it was at birth.
Clit orgasms brings about 3-16 contractions and lasts 10-30 seconds.

The Clit Science

I was reading about the clitoral science and so interesting that the clitoris wasn’t even in a medical journal until the late 1990’s !! The most surprising fact I saw was that first MRI wasn’t done to the clitoris until 2005!!! This MRI is what revealed that the clit extends internally and that internal area is really the woman’s “goddess spot or G-spot” The internal clitoral area, the skene’s glands is actually the woman’s prostate! Yes, women have one as well, IT’S THE G-SPOT!

Clit Methods & Tools

Methods

There are different methods/techniques that can change the sensation/intensity to the clit. Things like, changing positions, pressure, and rhythm. Specifically, things like, switch the direction of your rub, change the number of fingers, add or change toys.

One of the best methods is switch between external clit stimulation and vaginal (internal) penetration. Reaching about a third of the way from the vaginal opening and playing with a mix of pressure and stimulation on the front (or upper) vaginal wall, the g-spot. This may give a woman blended orgasms (clitoral & vaginal (g-spot).)

Tools

Digits meaning fingers… even toes! Applying pressure by twisting, pinching & squeezing.
Hands; slapping, spanking and massaging
Mouth/Tongue; licking, sucking and blowing
Hot or Cold Creams/Gels/Oil
Feathers (external)
Clips/Clamps
Paint Brush (external)
Electric Toys/Tens Unit
Vibrator (internal or external stimulation)
Suckers (Womanizers/Vaginal (pussy) Pumps
G-Spot probe/dildo (Internal stimulation)
Binding the clit with small thin rope or rubber bands.

Bondage/Binding Warning

When binding or putting the clit under any pressure. You must start off with 3-5 minutes and work up to the 20 min MAX point. Never leave anything on the clit more than 20 min, as you could cut off the blood supply and kill the tissues. If you ever go longer with any pressure, you must decrease the pressure of the tool to just a slight pressure, letting blood flow and making sure the squeeze is NOT cutting off blood flow.

Clit Limits

Every clit is different so get to know your limits. Educate yourself and your partner. Play, explore, go slow take your time, get to know what your clit-limits are. Now you know another of Marriage’s Sexiest Secrets!