Dominance and Submission Community Theme, June 2021

Dominance and Submission Community Theme

This month’s Dominance and submission, subMrs Community Theme is “The Atmosphere of the Butterfly.” June is the first month of Summer and the month of the spiritual Summer Solstice, AKA….the longest day of the year. The weather and atmosphere most places has heated up. Outdoors, between the fire’s heat and the air’s humidity they cum together in the evenings in such a magical, sexy, and beautiful way.

The Atmosphere

First the atmosphere, we want to help Marriage’s Sexiest Secret couples create and keep the atmosphere that will preserve their dynamic for the long run. The couple creates the right atmosphere to begin the journey. How do you keep the atmosphere? We will help you figure out how the Dominant and submissive roles CONTINUE making a healthy atmosphere.

The Butterfly

Then cums the butterfly. We will talk about the butterfly, the sexual position. The butterfly though goes sooo much deeper….. Couldn’t resist… LOL! It represents a subMrs soul, her psyche and her dynamic in so many ways. Just as the butterfly, we begin as the caterpillar slowly walking and winding our way, then weaving a better version of ourselves, finding out new things about us and our partners. We create a beautiful chrysalis, staying dormant until finally ready to break free of our old vanilla shell and becoming this beautiful kinky butterfly.

The dynamic puts our marriages into a magical “butterfly effect”, slowly and surly changing us personally and our marriage’s for the better. The butterfly is represented in ancient cultures as someone’s soul. In Greece, Aristotle gave the butterfly the name psyche, the word for soul, and Psyche was also the name of Eros'(Cupid-Roman) human lover.

This month on the subMrs, a Dominance and submission community you will see many holidays, twisted holidays for you and your Sir to celebrate, inspiring you and your partner in the way this place only can! On the subMrs calendar , you will see Live Video Chats that include our focus groups, mentors and our unique method.

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June holds a special treat for our couples! The submissive erotica book club and husDOM.com are both doing a special book series, Enthrall, by Vanessa Fewings. This is an immersive couples book experience. Meaning you’ll be doing Dominance and Submissive Exercises along with your reading! Get your books right away! This book speaks of butterflies and chrysalis’ quite often.

Happy June & Hello Summer!

Get your husband involved, have him register on husDOM!

I’m Proud are You?

LAST but NOT LEAST! June is GAY PRIDE MONTH! We are very proud to have a child that is gay. This is the time of year when we celebrate the impact that lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender individuals have had on history locally, nationally, and internationally. It’s a great time to recognize the contributions of your LGBT+ peers, learn a little bit more about LGBT+ history, celebrate diversity, and consider the ways that you can contribute to creating a more inclusive society.

Become an Ally

Become an ally of LGBT+ . When someone in your life tells you that they are LGBT+, it can be difficult to know how to respond. Your initial reaction may be one of surprise, excitement, confusion, discomfort. Try to Be honest and positive in your response, but you should also recognize the importance of the positivity you give them in that moment. Your smile or kind words will have a major impact.

Pride

Gay pride or LGBT pride is the promotion of the self-affirmation, dignity, equality, and increased visibility of lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender people as a social group. Pride, as opposed to shame and social stigma, is the predominant outlook that bolsters most LGBT rights movements.

This is the month many children choose to “come out” to their friends and families. Unfortunately, many times they are put out on their own and mis-understood by everyone. Do you know someone, a friend or a family that needs just an ear to listen? … Find it in your heart to open your arms and door to them.

So, how to celebrate and sub-port this Pride month? Purchase a rainbow flag, Go to a parade, wear a t-shirt or socks… really rainbow anything, shop the art and culture, educate yourself a bit about it all and find a happy understanding. Show others you’re being supportive, letting the LGBT+ community and other’s know you are their ally!

We are so proud of our son. We acknowledge the courage it took to be himself. We sub-SUPPORT him and the LGBT+ community. It’s kinda a great club of people that just love unconditionally…… XOXO LK