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Introductions
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Finally introducing myself, I am Quietsecret. After nearly 3o years of a wonderful marriage, but a rather frustrating sex life for both of us, we have finally unlocked the secret and pieced our relationship together. I was raised, like many, in a church background that instilled in me a fear of sex and never knowing it could be fulfilling for me. I do not blame them, they were only perpetuation the beliefs they had learned as well. It was about 25 years before I experienced an honest to goodness, orgasm. Not even realizing that I never had before. It was no wonder that I never really desired sex, which was so frustrating to my husband and myself. God designed sex to be a pleasure and not a chore. And that a D/s dynamic can fit God’s design more fully than anything I had been taught to believe. So now, In our prime at 50 we are so fulfilled. It started for me when I discovered my hormone levels were horribly out of balance. My testosterone was virtually none and I had to press my doctor for help. Now I am getting my levels balanced, which has led me to examine my sexuality even further and here we are. D/s has brought us to a place in our relationship that is unbelievable. Giving up my selfish wishes and serving my husband has created the beauty and fulfillment we both craved. Im so happy to have found this site, and I’ve led my Sir to Husdom as well.
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Hey there, quietsecret1!
Welcum to the subMrs community! You are going to find MANY similarities with others here. It is wonderful to have a place to cum and share your struggles, joys, and growth with. I hope we see you in the New Members Chat section soon. We’d love to get to know you!
sub-hugs!
subMarie
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Welcome, quietsecret! My Mhac and I have only been around for a few months too. I hope we can chat soon. The subs here are wonderful and I hope that you’ll find a home here in Lk’s Warren just as I have!
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Thank you both!
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I’ve been lurking for a couple of months, so here’s an actual introduction!!!
I’m kattunge (Swedish for kitten), I’m 42 and I’ve been married to Sir Tomcat for almost 20 years. We don’t have any kids (yet, still hopeful) and live in the southeastern US. About 2 months ago I asked him if he would just tell me what to do in the bedroom, which I followed with, I’m not sure I want to be spanked or anything, just told what to do 😂😂. He had apparently been researching the D/s dynamic for a couple of months previously and hadn’t figured out how to bring it up yet. Perfect timing!!! Sir actually found husDom first and then requested that I join here to make the most of our learning!!
We are doing 24/7 to the best of our current ability and it’s been really nice! Looking back over our marriage, I’ve been asking for a D/s dynamic without knowing what I was asking for, for basically the entire 20 years! The relief I have felt since he started being my dominant is beyond my ability to express!! I am so looking forward to growing in this dynamic!! And – I learned very quickly that I really like being spanked!!! 😂😂😂-
Welcome to the submrs community kattunge! So happy hear that your Sir has joined HusDom also. You both will find a wealth of information on the D/sM lifestyle on both sites. If you have any questions please don’t hesitate to ask. The new members chat is a great place to go and talk to new and seasoned submrs subbies. Check out the calendar for live topic chats. They are a lot of fun. xoxox BellaRose
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Hi everyone! I’m coco. I’m 26. Sir and i have been married for a little over 4 years. We don’t have any children (we both struggle with fertility). We have been D/s for about 2 years but lax about it. We decided we want to hit hard and be more vigilant in it. I’m excited to meet more subs and make lasting friends who understand this type of lifestyle 🙂
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Hi ladies, I am fairly new to this site and it’s been a great resource so far. I am 41 years old. I have been married for 23 years and we have 4 girls ranging from a college senior – 4th grade. My Sir and I have been BDSM in the bedroom for most of our marriage. We are 4 months into a full time lifestyle. We own several fitness based businesses together so things can get complicated when we are in management meetings. He is on HusDom but I don’t now his name.
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Hi everyone. I am brand new on the site as well as getting starting with the lifestyle. I am 36 and have been married to my husband for three years. We have two kids, ages 9 and 12. I am looking forward to making friends.
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Hi All! I’m HisMoon and am very excited to learn more about the mD/s dynamic as well as have people to talk with about the lifestyle. I am 44, have been married for 23 years and have three teenagers. We have been doing some mD/s since the fifty shades books came out and have been slowly and gradually getting more and more serious about it. Currently we do bedroom submission only, and that works for us quite well. Little bits of sir often comes out during the day, but with three teenagers at home, we try to keep it mostly in the bedroom. Since our progression has been so gradual, we have really taken the time to explore and add more rules and rituals as we go along. Currently, we have a contract that we revisit at least once a year to review and make changes. This helps me stay in the mindset and helps sir to follow through on a number of items. I’m so lucky that our marriage has always been solid and healthy, but since we’ve added D/s to it, it continues to grow stronger every year. I’m so happy to find this site and looking forward to lots of future discussions.
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Hi everyone, my name is discretesub, and I’m 36 years old. My husband and I have been married almost 18 years and have 2 kids with us at home. We tried to do D/s-M last year and both came a bit unravelled when life got hard, but it never left our minds or hearts. Sir is taking it MUCH more serious this time, we made a formal contract that we’ll review monthly and he collared me last night…which was amazing. I am so grateful to be on this site for support and advice!
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