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Introductions
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My name is Angie, I’m 30yrs old here is my intro…
My D/s-M journey number…1
Meet my Dominant partner thought beyond anything he was my one. That was 2008 that is when my subbie journey started…. Married in June of 2011 had a bouncing baby girl. After 2014 the marriage ended.
I had lost my will to submit.
D/s-Ltr Journey number…2
My current Sir, (not sure of his husdom name) since 2015, Moved from Michigan in 2017 to Central Pennsylvania USA.
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Welcome Angie
I am so glad to see that you did not give up on your submission, we hope that you will find being on subMrs will inspire you and you will be able to meet alot of other wonderful subs on site. Chatting with others is such an awesome way to connect.I am Sweetness- the NSC(new sub consultant)/Contributor I am 51 years Old married to MR B on HusDOM for 28 years and we have been in D/s-m for 6 years. We have 3 kids (27,25,18) we live in So California
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sweetness
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Hello all. I’m 42 & my husDom is 43. Married to husDom for almost 3 years now. Together for 5. We have 4 kiddos, 2x 17, 14 & 12. And a granddaughter. We started D/s before our marriage. Then around our first anniversary stepped back out of the roles; life was crazy. We have both been lost and missing it. We are trying to regroup and get back into it 24/7, as we both feel lost without the connection. We are taking it slowly, to make sure we get it right this time. Pretty sure I couldn’t take another “break” from the lifestyle. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated, as how to regroup after a break. His current task for me is to get back into writing and write scenes for us to act out. This seems daunting, but is also exciting, as I haven’t written in quite some time. Thank you for having me. I’m very excited about this group.
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Hello there, hislittlemoushka! Welcum to subMrs!!! I have a few recommendations for you. The first is to begin building a solid foundation. You can start this by searching the tab titled “on is to work on building a solid D|s-M foundation. Check out the tab titled, “Where to Begin” and select “Foundations.” Take a look at the calendar tab. There is a journal prompt each week that may help get all of your juices flowing. Additionally, there are several chats that are scheduled to help you learn, grown, and share. We learn so much from one another. Be sure your Sir is signed up and participates on husDom! He has a lot of learning to do as well. And finally, join us in the subMrs chat. There is usually someone always there to talk all things D|s-M!
Building a solid foundation is critical to your success. This tools learned will help tremendously when your D|s-M hits a wall or begins to ebb.
~subMarie
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Hello everyone!
I have enjoyed reading all
Of your stories and decided it was time to join in. I belong to JWTC (husDom) married for 17 years, together for 20. I am 47 with two teenage boys at home. We started this journey about 4 months ago and am so grateful to this site for assisting in me in my growth. Once we decided to move forward, (again, through the help of this site)- we drew up a contract and are 24/7. I cannot believe how it has strengthened our commitment and love for one another. It’s reassuring to find I am
not the only newbie out here! I absorb as much as I can from you all and appreciate your recommendations, suggestions, honesty and disclosure. ❤️
AdoredbyHim (Sheila)-
Welcome! I am glad you joined in! I look forward to getting to know you better in our chats!
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Welcum to the subMrs family! You have found the greatest group of subbies on the planet 🙂 please jump on chat the next time your online so we can all get to know you better.
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Hello everyone
i have been reading through the 18/19 introductions and i’m excited to join. i belong to Ricroc on husDom. We have been married for 7 years. We started this journey about 5 years ago, 2 years ago we created a contract but after a few months just stopped. i blame myself for not finishing the first phase for my Master. i’m committed to working harder for us. i’m thankful to this site for the advice and subs to chat with. i’m glad to find I am
not the only newbie and to find others with questions. Please feel free to send any and all suggestions from when you started.
Thanks!
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Welcum to the family!!! We are all learning everyday the best way to serve our Sirs. If you have any specific questions you can either use the chat or look in the forums or post a question in the forums. We will gladly share our experiences with you.
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Hi, I’m Cherry. I was here a year ago, but took a break because I needed to figure some things out. I’m married to my Husband of 18 years, both in our 40s with 2 kids. This spring I was thinking about joining submrs again, and so here I am. The past couple of months I’ve focused on being a better homemaker, soliciting his opinions on various matters pertaining to me (hair, jewelry, clothing), and being sweeter in general (making foods he likes, giving massages, paying compliments). Recently I’ve brought up bringing D/s more into the bedroom dynamic. We experiment a little but we’re pretty vanilla + BDSM-lite. I’m so glad to find this space that’s focused on married and monogamous couples!
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Heyla everyone!
Let’s see… I’m 44, I’ve been with my husband since 1993 (we married in 1999), and we have five children (the oldest is 14, the youngest is 5). BDSM has been an element in our relationship since the start but how that has been expressed has changed a lot over the years. 🙂 About five years ago my husband lost his job and we moved cross country to make a fresh start. Unfortunately, it didn’t work out the way we had hoped and things got a lot more challenging. A back injury and the resulting chronic pain meant that my husband (SoulDaddy over on husDom) wasn’t able to work so we ended up shifting our responsibilities within the family. For the past three years he has been the “at home” parent while I ended up working outside the home instead of homeschooling the kids and managing the house. This threw our marriage and D/s dynamic for a loop, resulted in our moving across country again (from Colorado to New York so I could take a job as a librarian in a small, rural, town in the Finger Lakes region while also being closer to his elderly father), and added the stress of “seven people, one public servant income” to the mix.
It’s been a roller coaster and I admit…I don’t really like the person I’ve become over the past three years. I haven’t been the wife, the mother, the submissive, the PERSON I want to be. A few months ago I told my husband we needed a change, a complete reboot, because we were reaching rock bottom. I was honest about how much I needed him to take back the Dominant nature that was so much a part of him before all the changes, but I wasn’t as considerate as I should have been, and I ended up hurting him even more. I made a mess of it, and I was really, really afraid he was going to leave. However, I found and subMrs and started reading (to myself and sometimes to him) and then I joined the premium side last month and asked him to join husDom and it has been a complete 180. He’s been reading on his own and chatting with other husDoms and in just the past few weeks he has been more relaxed and confident than he has been in the last three years. He’s applying for jobs (and has an interview this week!) and talking about going back to school (he was an EMT and can’t do that any more but he is talking about nursing school so he can still care for people without the physical demands of an ambulance/emergency setting) and after almost six months of not even touching me he’s started to take control physically as well.
We have a long way to go but I’m thrilled. And so very thankful to have found a community where I have the support and companionship of other married subs while my husband can talk with and bounce ideas off other married Doms (honestly I think married Doms have a much harder time of it even if they don’t have medical or financial challenges because our social norms just pull them in so many conflicting directions and there is so rarely someone they can talk with about it in a been there done that sort of way). Obviously it’s early days, but I’m very hopeful. I’m kneeling, and meditating, and working on my own submission and hoping like heck the positive changes continue to grow. I feel hopeful for the first time in months, and this forum has a big role in that. So thank you for being here!
Ummmm… okay. I should probably confess now that I write the same way I talk. Which is “a lot” and “quickly”. As you may have noticed. Despite being a librarian, being told to “stay shushed” is just about the harshest punishment ever for me. So, if you’ve made it this far, thank you! I look forward to getting to know you all better (and even if I write a book, I never expect anyone to write as much back! So please don’t think I’d ever expect that. I just babble along and am suitably impressed by people who can stop after a simple “h!” since I know I’ll never have that super power). 🙂
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Welcome to subMrs. What a journey you have been on! I am so excited to get to know you in the chat rooms. I love the easy, warm way you write. Cant wait to hear more.,:)
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Hi everyone,
I’m Tammy, 39, married to Richard who is joining husDom as I write. I’m excited to know there’s a place for marriage and monogamy in the Lifestyle. We have been married for six years and have been getting into BDSM for the last 2-3 months due to finally having some open, heart searching conversations about what was missing in our lives. We’ve been happier than I can remember us being in a very long time. We are mostly only in the bedroom for the moment since we have teenage children, but we find subtle ways to take it into the rest of the home. As the kids are leaving home, we look forward to making it a more 24/7 thing along 1950’s household dynamics. I look forward to getting to know people here!
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Hi, Tammy. Welcome to subMrs. We’re so happy to have you. I have teens, too. 🙂 I look forward to getting to know you better.
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Welcome Tmilner! Glad you found SubMrs.! This is a great community. One way to learn LOTS and get to know other couples are the couple chats that happening at least once a month. If you are worried about privacy, you don’t have to share your webcam and can just watch and listen in. But I think you and your Sir will quickly find how welcoming, understanding, and loving this community really is!!
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Welcum to subMrs, Tmilner!
You came to the right place. You will find many of us are in the same phase of life. We worked hard raising our families oftentimes putting our marriage on the back burner. This is an exciting time! I’d like to invite you to join us on the New Members Chat. We would love to meet and get to know you.
sub-Hugs!
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Hi, I am elskling and married to the Viking. We have been in a D/s marriage for over 20 years. Our two daughters are grown now and we are focusing on our D/s relationship full time 24/7 since we have the time and privacy to do so. We have had these roles since the beginning with ebbs and flows through the years. It’s important for me to have like minded people to share with. We love the couple we have become. I look forward to meeting everyone.
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Welcum to subMrs, elskling!!! I wish m Sir and I had the insight to have had D/s much sooner in our marriage. It would have saved a few arguments and a lot of stress! I have two daughters that are 19 and 22. I love this new phase of life we an entering. It is even more precious now that we are D/s-M. Please join us in the subMrs chat rooms! I’d love to get to know you!
sub-Hugs!
subMarie
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Hi everyone! I belong to SirDarkKnight on husDom, we have been married for almost 8 years, together for 10. Sir is 50 and I’m 48, we have 3 adult children and are raising our 2 grand babies. Sir has always been very Vanilla, until we got together, we have been a little “adventurous” over the years. We have had many power struggles over the years, Sir is very soft spoken and I’m very bossy. After a huge argument and fallout from our grands seeing and hearing it (no violence, just horrible ugly words) I needed to do some soul searching! I have demanded Sir take control of things in our day to day life that are not His strengths but mine, under the pretence of taking things of my “plate” and making my life easier, forgetting to actually give Him the control. I have often said I would love to live in the Little House on the Prairie era but taking the internet with me, to do that means that I have to submit to my Husband! After a lot of soul searching, taking time to reconnect with my Sir as his wife and He as my husband, taking the time to really look in my own mirror, seeing who I had become and realizing I was so miserable with Him, because I truly didn’t like who I had become or who I was created to be. Once I started to understand the my husband is actually my protector, my provider, my head, the switch to a submissive mindset happened almost immediately, the more I understood this truth, the more I wanted to serve Him! Totally took me by surprise! A few short weeks ago, I asked him to be my Sir, we both have a lot to learn, but we have grown as a couple so much since I asked. I no longer dread the mundane things (housekeeping etc) I happily do them now knowing it frees up so much time for us to spend together! We have open communication, amazing play time, can’t keep our hands off each other and are so much in love, even our adult son who still lives at home has commented on how much peace there is in our home now! I wait in anticipation every day for Sir to come home from work! Thanks for letting me ramble!
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Welcum to subMrs, SirDKlittleone!
There are so many of us that are a just like you in so many ways! I often read the introductions wondering if in fact I had written it. It is like reading your own story over and over again. Congratulations on fining the magic and sparking the intimacy in your marriage. It is truly a wonderful journey to be on. Please join us in the subMrs Chat (click on the gold bar and select New Members Chat!) I’d love to get to know you!
sub-Hugs!
subMarie
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Hi SirDKlittleone, Your story sounds familiar. Even though I was always a submissive (as far back as I can remember) life got in the way. There was always so much I had to take control of that my submissive self (which is my happy place)was so busy doing what had to be done it never had a chance to be present. When I was in my 40’s I was ready to explode if I couldn’t live as myself and be who I truly am. Fortunately my Sir is a natural dominant and He had no problem getting on board.
We are still evolving and growing and this site has enhanced our dynamic more than I can say. I’m excited for your growth and your journey forward and wish you both the best of everything.
warmly
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Hello,
I am very new to all this, I have started to “see” a man who is a Dom, and who introduced me to this new world. (new to me). Hes starting me very slow and teaching me the ways. An when i say slow i mean teaching me that hes addressed as sir, and when he wants something im to obey. I’m enjoying this but what im nervous, and excited all in one about is our first time in the bedroom. Im a bit self conscious being a bigger woman, so as much as i want to enjoy this im affraid i wont. Any pointers for a new sub? pointers for pleasing? for the bedroom?Thank you,
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SafeCactus
Welcome and first time is always exciting and nerve wracking, however you have to remember your sir is teaching you slowly and would never hurt you and he looks at you with desire above everything else. You may be subconscious about your body, but i guarantee you your sir is looking at you with nothing but respect and desire. You need to focus on his commands and his desires for you! Take a deep Breath and maybe let him know your fears so that he can reassure you that you are in good hands. To please your sir is to Obey all his commands.
Good luck with your first encounter and remember he only wants whats best for you!!
hugs
sweetnessyou can also take a look at the Mirror Post LK has.
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I’m finally breaking through the uncharacteristic shyness that’s kept me lurking on the sidelines for a few weeks. So here goes…
I’m called Kätzchen/34 and my Sir is Mhac Tíre/36 on husDom. We’ve been married for 15 years and have 5 babies from a senior in high school down to a third grader. Mhac and I have played with BDSM and kink for about 5 years now when I finally cracked and came to him with my submissive desires. We began our D/s-M Journey a little over a year ago, experimenting and learning what felt right and natural for us. Without knowing the term for it, we had our own Formal Acceptance ritual on March 9th of this year and have lived 24/7 since. Finding submrs and husDom has encouraged us so very much in our roles and our dynamic. We’re still learning, still growing and I hope we never stop! He’s always been the gentle, loving, nurturing type and it’s been an amazing experience to witness the birth and evolution of the Wolf he’s kept chained up for most of His life while still having my Daddy to encourage me on our Journey together.
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Welcome Katzchen this site really is a great place for growth and community.
Hope to chat soon
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Welcome Katzchen this site really is a great place for growth and community.
Hope to chat soon
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Welcome, welcome welcome!!! I hoped to see you in chat, but I’m glad your feeling more comfortable. Because of my illness, I’m around a lot. Just jump in if you feel up to it. I’d love to chat with you! HUGS!
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