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Introductions
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Hello, I am Missy to my Mister…
We have been married for 35 years as High School Sweethearts.
We are so excited to have found this safe place to join others in this lifestyle. This is a new thing for us. It is perfect timing and fitting for us.
We have come through a lot in our 35 years of marriage. I have had to over come some childhood traumas which many of the memories where repressed and unknown to me until recently. My Mister has suffered so much because of it but has always stood by my side. I have finally taken back my “POWER” and have been able to gift it to my Dom/Mister.
I am submissive at heart…I suppose that’s why I love being a wife and mother. I love being used/useful.
I am confident that this new journey is going to help me and my Dom/Mister to grow and connect with each other in ways we never dreamed. So looking forward to getting to know and learn for some of you other subs 😊 -
Hi Everyone! I’m Reynaniteraven, I’m 45 years old, I’ve been married to my Sir for 24 yesrs, we have been together for 26 years. We have two children a 23 year old daughter and a 18 year old son. My Sir snd I are very new to the D/s-M…like two/three weeks new. I know my Sir registered on HusDom, I’m not yet sure of his user name.
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Hello Reynaniteraven! Welcome to the site! I’m so happy that you found this site! There are a ton of great posts from LK our founder. When you are ready come join us in chat!
LUNA
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Hi everyone. I’m 32 and my Sir and I have been married alittle less than a year. Together for 2. We have 4 kids in or blended family. We’re very new to D/s-M so I’m here to learn more! He isn’t on husDom site yet, but he plans to if I get good info from here 🙂
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Welcome to submrs subQueen! I am Veruca, Head Ambassador and just wanted to let you know that if you need any help at all, please feel free to contact me (you can send me a private chat if I am on or email me at veruca@submrs.com), any other Ambassador or LK herself!
Here are some links to some great blog posts:
https://submrs.com/foundation/
https://submrs.com/downtime/
https://submrs.com/submissive-advise-formal-acceptance-ds-lifestylefsog-lifestyle/Glad you are here! I look forward to chatting with you soon!
Smooches,
VStarting Your Foundation, Wiping the Slate & Climbing the Ladder in a D/s-Married Dynamic
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Hi all!
Registered on this site a while a go and periodically came on and had a look around before finally introducing myself.
I am not married but have been in a LTR for the past 12 years. We have no children only a spoiled cat. I explored the idea on a Sub/ Dom dynamic a couple of years ago with my fella. At first I did not feel he was particularly receptive but a conversation a couple of days ago actually confirmed that it was something that he was really interested in exploring. By day I am in a professional career where I am expected to lead and give direction. However at home I am very much a submissive by nature. I see exploring my submissive side of me as a way of letting go and seeking healing from my past. We both felt that although we deeply love each other we wanted to explore this dynamic to create greater emotional intimacy between us. However as a woman I feel conflicted with my own sexual and emotional needs and societal expectations. I’m sorry if I’m not making much sense, I realise that it is very early days and there is so much to explore. Thanks for reading.Best Wishes
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Welcome to submrs!
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Hi everyone
I registered a while back but not engaged yet as not really sure what to join in with. Still finding my feet.
I a strong woman in control of all day to day things but when it comes to sex want and need the complete opposite. I am married with a grown up child and want to chat with others who are like minded.
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Hello, I’m Cherry. My husband and I have been married almost 17 years, together for almost 20 years. We have two kids under 10. We’ve been mostly vanilla with a few kinks thrown in over the years (some roleplay, light bondage and power play). Lately I’ve expressed my desire to have a bedroom D|s-M dynamic. We’ve done our yes/no/maybe lists, a couple of playtimes and one scene. My focus is on the long game and being patient because my husband has a slower to warm up time frame. Thanks for reading and looking forward to learning with y’all.
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Welcome Cherry! We are happy you are hear! Come join the new/register chat room any time when your ready! Cant wait to chat with you and learning more with you!
Luna
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Hello, I am 36, married to my Dhusband (who is not not husDom yet) for 5 years and we have been together for 11. We have 2 kids ages 5, 3 and I am 31 weeks pregnant (due in August). We are very new into our D/s relationship but this was the dynamic our relationship had when we first began dating, but fell into the bored habit of everyday which has lasted the last 10 years. Recently, for his birthday, I put our fun bed straps on the bed and let him have his way. I spent a week obsessing over how much I loved the power he had in the room and his confidence the days after. I started researching why I enjoyed it so much and stumbled upon bdsm and to dive into what the dynamics of a D/s relationship looks like. I knew I wanted this everyday. I presented him with the idea and he was all on bored. We have stared out bedroom only but I know this will quickly move to 24/7 D/sM relationship and I could not be more excited for this lifestyle.
I am very happy to have this group to find topics on married life, particularly with small kids, and advice on how to navigate these waters. I look forward to engaging with each of you. -
Welcome to subMrs Es!
We are happy you are here! This community is fll of subporrtive subbies and LK, our Founder, and posted blog post on her journey with Mr. Fox, the Founder of HusDom, that are ful of great tools. When you are ready you can join us in Chat! I look forward to meeting you and getting to know you better.
I also have younger kids a 5 and 6 year old with My Sir and he has an 11 and 9 year old from his first marriage.Luna
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Hello everyone,
I am 40 years old and my sir is KSC420 on husDom. We have been together for 10 years and married for 6. We have a 15 year old son and a 17 year old daughter. We have always had an amazing sex life. We have had some issues over the last year. I recently revealed to him my desire for submission. He has always been so gentle and sweet that I never thought he had it in him to give me what I secretly wanted. He gave me a brief demonstration right away that let me know he was more than up for the task. Last night I did the formal acceptance and then had an amazing night of incredible sex at a completely higher level at his direction and domination. We both feel like this is already taking our marriage to another level. He said this gives him a whole other way to nurture and protect me that he didn’t even know I needed. We’re excited to learn more together and I’m so happy he found this website. It shows me his level of commitment. Hopefully, we will both grow and learn from each other and everything on this site and maybe one day we’ll be able to go to an event and put some faces with the names.
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Dear HisSub17,
Welcum to our community! It is very nice to meet you and read your story. You and your Sir are off to a great start. I look forward to getting to know you better and to share this journey.
Warm regards,
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Welcum HisSub17 to subMrs!
It’s been a pleasure to meet you and to chat with you some!! I can’t wait to get to know you better! Grey and I had a rough year or two when we found this community and it changed us and saved our marriage! We are happy you are here and can’t wait to share this journey with you!
Best Wishes,
Luna
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Hello, my name is Nicolle and I have been married to my husband for sixteen years. We have two amazing children, ages 15 and 9. Although, I have know I am a submissive for some time, I have just recently shared full details with my husband. I had hinted before, but never fully went into detail until this weekend. He seemed happy when I told him, but i wanted him to do some research of his own to really understand. He has joined Husdom to begin his part of the journey. I am hoping we will both learn more and become even closer as we share this journey together. Any advice and support would be amazing. Thanks!!
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Hello Wnysub,
Welcum to SubMrs! Its nice to meet you! When your ready I hope to chat with you in chat and get to know you better and to learn more about your dynamic!
Best Wishes,
Luna
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Dear wnysub,
It is very nice to meet you. Best of luck on your journey. I hope to get to know you better in our chats 🙂
Warm regards,
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Hi Everyone! My name is Valerie. I’m 54 and have been married for 26 years and together off an on before that for 9. We both had a child when we met so we have never been a couple without kids. We’ve done some bedroom D/s in the past but never really knew that was what it was. Then life started getting in the way and we sunk into a vanilla life. Like so many women, I read FSOG and was like, “oh hey, there you are.” It was like a light bulb went off in my head. I’ve spent the last 26 years basically trying to be in control of everything and everyone around me and honestly I’m exhausted. Our marriage had taken a back seat to work, school and kids. The past year we have been grieving the loss of our son and it nearly destroyed me. I really believe BDSM is saving my life. I know it has brought sex back to our marriage and that wsa something we completely lost. My Sir is reluctant to move this lifestyle into our everyday life but is more than happy to embrace it in the bedroom. At least it’s a start. I’m so happy to have found this site. It is very hard not having anyone to talk to about things and I am looking forward to learning from all of you.
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Welcome! Glad you found us and if there is anything we can do to help you, just hop into the chat room and ask…we all subport each other! I look forward to chatting with you soon!
Smooches,
V
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Dear Hishoney,
Very nice to meet you. Your story is very moving and relatable. Thank you for sharing! I am looking forward to chatting with you and reading more about your journey in the forums.
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Hello
I have been married to my husband for 11 years. We have two children 5 and 3. I did my Formal Acceptance about two days ago. We have played with BDSM before and submissiveness has also been my fantasy. As I have been very excited since he accepted me. We even had our first downtime yesterday to discuss our expectations. We are both eager to learn and grow in this new journey.
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Hello there, HuckLove! We love when new subbies join us. This is exciting times for you and your husband!
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Welcome, Hucklove!
We’re so glad you found us here! Hope you are enjoying your journey so far! We are here to help answer any questions, give ideas, and advice! Don’t hesitate to ask or pop on the chat with us!
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Hello all! I’m 37 years old and married to MrOTW for 10 years this coming Dec. We have 2 young kids, 4 and 6, and I’m a stay at home mom and homeschool. We began opening up the world about 8 months ago and started dabbling with D/S in March. We decided to switch roles each month and see how it went. Well, I was in charge for the second half of July and the whole month of August. Whew! I was done! We talked and decided to simply let Sir be in charge for….awhile. LoL! Well….after my Sir began to grow in his leadership and assertiveness, I didn’t want to be in charge anymore. Lol! Now, we are newbies trying to develop a 24/7 lifestyle subetly with litties at home. It’s interesting to say the least
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Welcome, Minx. Thank you for sharing your story with us. I love that you arrived in your roles in a way that makes you absolutely sure that the submissive role is where you want to be. You have such insight and appreciation for the gift he gives you in taking up the reigns. 🙂 On a side note…I homeschool, too. 🙂 It does add its own challenges to the D/s dynamic, doesn’t it? 🙂
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Welcome, Minx!
I love your story! It’s such an interesting way to find out where the two of you belong in this dynamic. I think it’s great that you both tried the roles. It brings a level of appreciation for what each role experiences. I hope you are enjoying your new roles ;)!
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