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Would you like some D/s-M with that Sir?
After struggling through our relationship for nearly 14 years my husband and I decided it was time to reconnect. We both missed that new love feeling. The Wonder of it all. The excitement of not knowing where it’s going to lead you next. Hoping that it will lead to something wonderful and new at every turn. Okay, maybe my husband wasn’t thinking all of this but I was. And he surely was thinking some of it. But I digress…. We decided to take a mini honeymoon that we never got to take after our wedding. So 8 years into our marriage we decided to take a 4 day get away to Niagra falls. We had talked a little bit about a D/s relationship but we never went into details and I honestly didn’t think he had any idea of what I was truly asking him or what my most inner desires were. He thought it was all about the kink. I have always been a very sexually charged person. I needed him to understand that I needed this not just for my sexual gratification but for emotional and mental, maybe even spiritual needs. I needed to submit to him. I needed his satisfaction more than my own. Not just in the bedroom but in our everyday lives. So the week before we were to leave for our trip I methodically wrote out a D/s-M agreement that I thought could fulfill us both. It took me days to complete it. Thinking carefully of what I already knew my husband would need but leaving plenty of room for things he might want to add or express. Our second day into our trip he went to pick up the take out while I kneeled on the bed naked waiting for his return. I was very nervous because I had no idea if he really wanted this lifestyle and I knew it would crush me if he said he didn’t. He brought the food in and sat on the bed. I put the agreement next to him and asked him to read it and sign it if he really wanted this. I ask him to color me if he agreed. He read through the pages quietly never looking up at me. I sat on the bed, my heart pounding in my chest, and my thoughts too busy to eat. just quietly awaiting his answer. When he finished he looked up at me and said there was one thing he could not agree to. I held my breath and looked where he was pointing. He said he could not put a color on me and never wanted to see one on me. I tried to explain to him why I felt it was necessary but he said if you want this you need to understand I will have to go slow to get used to this way of thinking. This is a lot to get used to and I don’t think I will ever agree to the color. I excepted his answer with Glee! I could wait for the color and even if it didn’t happen I could live with that. I was just happy that my husband who I loved more than anyone or anything in the world just said yes to being my Dominant!! I was the happiest I have ever been in that moment in time. It meant everything to me. I hope we will continue to grow in our relationship finding more ways to please and understand each other.
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