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  • Deleted User

    Deleted User
    at 9:14 am

    Hi ladies! My name came from something that my Sir has always called me. It started out as baby and changed to babe. When we started our journey My Sir told me that he wanted to be called Sir. We have older kids and I don’t call him Sir in front of the kids unless they aren’t in hearing distance. lol

  • littledoll

    Member
    at 3:12 am

    Hello ladies my Sir and I are just beginning our journey into this lifestyle. Right now He and I have agreed for my name to be doll because I have throwback style to the 50’s so His little doll seems to fit me. He has always called me baby but we wanted to differentiate times. While I am currently calling him Sir in the bedroom. His first name is what we wanted to use in public because i never use it I have always called him by babe, sweetie, hon

  • Deleted User

    Deleted User
    at 4:30 pm

    I found LK’s site and joined as I was exploring D/s and before I’d really talked to my Sir about it much. I chose my name because my favorite hobby is gardening and while I am tending my many gardens I have time to think and reflect. On one of my reflections I thought about how our relationship is like a garden because it grows and changes with the seasons of our lives. I also thought about how my body swells with arousal and my lower lips open like a blossom. I knew that in choosing the name flowergarden my mind would focus on growth, arousal and pleasing my Sir. He chose his name on husdom (Gardens Farmer) because he, too, likes to garden with me but using his tractor with plow attachment. He also loves to plow and plant his seed in me. As for what we call each other around family and friends it varies on the situation and is not related to our names here. I’m thinking of suggesting I call him Colonel online since he’s joining the AF reserves after being out of active duty for 6 years.

  • ladybird

    Member
    at 11:51 am

    I chose my name, LadyBird when I signed onto this site. It was chosen because I knew my Sir would love it – the ladybird on a French animation series called Miniscule is incredibly mischievous and cheeky – that’s me to a ‘t’.

  • ceana

    Member
    at 2:40 pm

    Although I call Him “Sir” at home, even around the kids on some levels, we decided I had better come up with something that I could use around others. I sent him lots of options, one of which was Captain. I then followed with “Oh, Captain, my Captain” from Dead Poet Society. That won. I have shortened it to Cap or Cappy most of the time. I use Captain when he says things like “That’s 1” or “That’s 2” until we can get home and I can get back to Sir right away.
    He called me “baby doll” which he has for 25 years, so that’s what it was going to be, until he talked to my daughter on the phone and realized he too called the girls the same. He decided to re-name me and Ceana is Scottish for “fair one”

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  • carissimi

    Member
    at 6:59 pm

    Sir could not think of a pet name for me so I came up with dearest in Latin: Carissimi. Now he started calling me a German name of Liebchen which is darling or sweetheart.

  • lilliraev

    Member
    at 7:39 pm

    Master allowed me to pick my own name. As Master is of Dutch / Scandinavian heritage, I picked Lilli Raev. In old Danish, this translates to Little Fox. When he asked me to explain my name for approval, I responded that a fox is beautiful and has been hunted for centuries as a trophy. A fox can be shy and inquisitive or daring and playful – like me. In front of the kids, Master calls me Love or Princess, names he has called me for years.

    As for Master, I simply call him Master but in front of the kids or in public I call him Love or Sir. Born and raised in Texas, Sir is simply natural. Most people I speak with be they family, friends or strangers are almost always answered with Sir or Ma’am. As for Master’s name on this site, he has not yet picked one. I like Raev Jaeger, Danish for Fox Hunter.

  • wolf

    Member
    at 8:14 pm

    Whats in a name…….My Sirs name comes from his job, and our hobbies which is a love of all things geeky and the fact that he HATES being called Sir, I only ever refer to him as Sir when Im online.
    My name is something that Sir has been calling me for years, even from our first date. We love the double meaning to my name, makes it easy to flirt when we are out, and Sir can call me kitty in public and none of our friends bat an eye because they have been hearing it for 10 years. The double meaning to my name also comes in handy for Sir when Im in trouble, he can call me nearly anything related and I know Im in big big trouble, when he starts calling me pussycat, I can never decide if I should hide or throw myself at his feet and beg for mercy!

  • bliss-aka-mr-grants-muffin

    Member
    at 9:00 pm

    My online name is not my submissive name, because that came later. My husDom was insistent he wanted to pick a name and I wanted it to be something that could bleed over into our lives. For years he has called me Bebe, but we wanted to start new. He initially picked “Gretchin” for reasons I couldn’t understand other than it was German. I didn’t ‘feel’ it but it was his choice. Well one night when we had a party and he was exuberant, he wanted me to sit on his lap and I refused. I started to walk away (mind you full kitchen of people) he didn’t like it much and got “that voice” on but called me Muffin! I couldn’t help but laugh, turn around and plop down on his lap. From that point on, we both settled on Muffin. He has not asked me to call him Sir yet. I call him MC in texts, etc…for Master and Commander.

  • lindaday

    Member
    at 8:05 am

    I told Sir I needed an alias to register on this site. It took him about two weeks to come up with mine. Its galic and means little fire. When he told me what it means and that I am his light, and bring my energy, passion and warmth to him everyday it made me cry. Still makes me teary to think of the why behind my name. His name took him another week of thought. He wanted a name that fit with mine. When he told me his until he gave the explaination I admit I was confused. A stoker is the name for people who’s job is to mind fires either on a train or ship. They keep the fire burning just right. Not too hot not too cool. Too hot they burn up and cause explosions to cold they die. So his name is Mr Stoke. Because he feeds my fire.

  • lindaday

    Member
    at 8:08 am

    I told Sir I needed an alias to register on this site. It took him about two weeks to come up with mine. Its galic and means little fire. When he told me what it means and that I am his light, and bring my energy, passion and warmth to him everyday it made me cry. Still makes me teary to think of the why behind my name. His name took him another week of thought. He wanted a name that fit with mine. When he told me his until he gave the explaination I admit I was confused. A stoker is the name for people who’s job is to mind fires either on a train or ship. They keep the fire burning just right. Not too hot not too cool. Too hot they burn up and cause explosions to cold they die. So his name is Mr Stoker Because he feeds my fire.

  • Deleted User

    Deleted User
    at 12:55 pm

    My name Panda was a nickname that Sir called me since we started dating a really long time ago. It is a play on my real name. The name has carried over into the D/s lifestyle because it does have meaning for me and he uses all the time – probably more than my real name. Right now I’m just calling him Sir or Love. We have not come up with a good name for him beside that. This is something we will hopefully come up with as some point.

  • babygirljb

    Member
    at 8:22 pm

    My Daddy and I have been in the lifestyle a short 6 mos. From the beginning he has insisted that I call him Daddy. He calls me babygirl. In fact, if he uses my RL name I find that I get offended. babygirl is a name that can be used in public and it makes me feel so good when he calls me that.

  • Deleted User

    Deleted User
    at 1:43 pm

    I have always been called little beauty or beauty by Sir, I guess because he surely thinks this, he says i’m like a fairy-tale. I have always jokingly called him Beast in return, we tend to use these names in private and I do call him Sir from time to time when in public depending on the situation and always if i’m in trouble or the bedroom/private.

  • cheekyone

    Member
    at 3:59 am

    In our relationship we are both always joking with each other and having lots of fun. When I get tired I sometimes get sarcastic but in a more cheeky, naughty type way and that is the reason he chose this screen name. Funny enough it was one of my nicknames at varsity and before we joined this side of our personalities he always called me cheeky.

  • hprincess

    Member
    at 2:14 pm

    I know this is an older post originally, but I just want to share how my came about at least. It has been my pet name from my Sir for a long while now, predates the D/s part of our relationship. In any event, I love a fluffy bed…even like it to “look” fluffy, so I just kept adding things to our mattress, ie; memory foam, pillow tops, comforters, etc. The part I think he finds the funniest is that I am only 5 foot so I’m only making it harder for me to climb into bed. And so after the story the Princess and the Pea, he started calling me Princess Pea 🙂

  • wolf

    Member
    at 5:12 pm

    So my name change. It was upsetting and distressing going from being at kitty to a wolf. It cane about due to me having to stop running and tyrn and face my family and alot of crap that happened to me years agi. My Sir was proud, I was a snarling fighting bitch to be honest but it had to be done. My Sir says I have gone from a playful kitty cat who needed all the protection in the world to his true pack mate. I am a wolf, still playful but more true to myself, the only person who gets to push me around now is my alpha, My Sir and rightly so too!!

  • mrs-o

    Member
    at 9:21 am

    My Mr chose his name to be his the use of his formal name. I am to call him the abbreviated version Mr O or the full version. He said he will call me Mrs O when we are in public but wants to find just the right name for me. He feels that Mrs O is too equal and the point is for me to be submissive. He asked me if I wanted to have a say, and I said That I would. Although, what he calls me will ultimately be up to him. He used to call me ‘Boo’ years ago, so I might suggest that.

  • hotsmileyblondgirl

    Member
    at 8:38 pm

    My Sir has called me hot smiley blond girl from the first time we met. We are both new to D/s and he has not given me a name other then the above. When I created a sign on to learn I used the only thing other then my name he’s called me. I also have no other name for him then Sir. How does a dominant obtain his name?

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