• What do you do when it's your "time of the month"

    Posted by thatsmygirl on at

    Hello subbies, wanted to throw out the question and get some tips on how to deal with the inevitable period… how do you stay focused and still serve. Just as a background… this is the first time since we began this has come up and it used to be very much “hands off” time for us in the past.. sir has backed off completely and other than the obvious (head) I’m struggling to think of what I can offer him… he isn’t really exercising his dominance other than the bedroom generally and this is done as we are still learning .. any suggestions?

    davesbabydoll69 replied 6 years, 4 months ago 4 Members · 5 Replies
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  • meaux

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    Ahh, your time of month. I read a thread on here about what we call it, “shark week” made me laugh!!

    We were always hands off during that time before D/s as well, but it was all me (and to respect my wishes) — he had absolutely no loss of desire, and I think even wanted me more during that time. So I told him during downtime that issues which are only reluctance (simple mental state for me) like being on my period are fair game. AKA, he has my permission, but I really don’t want to ruin all of the bedding… so we bring out a towel for the bed.

    He really really likes it, and I am finding that it helps me with cramps a lot too.

  • thatsmygirl

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    Thanks Meaux!! Yes we call it shark week too!!! Hehe

    Great, I have let him know that it’s not off limits anymore (added to my list and rated it quite high too haha) also might help that we have just got a massive box delivered with new toys and we can’t wait to try them out!! We was sad when I told him shark week had come so I’ll let you know how it goes!!! 🙂

  • hiswifehistoy

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    For us, Sir doesn’t want to actually have sex, but he still loves to play and see me get into a state knowing that I won’t be getting any release. There’s a lot of teasing that happens during that time of the month. Drives me almost wild!

  • davesbabydoll69

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    We do anal during shark week. I’m not opposed to putting down a towel but Daddy is squicked out so it’s a no for regular sex.

  • davesbabydoll69

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    Ladies! My adult daughter reminded me of a product called soft disc for menstruation. It could be used for mess free period sex for those whose Sir is turned off by blood.

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