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What do I own?
As a submissive, no matter what type we belong to our Sir/Daddy/Master/Dominant.
In my dynamic:
He owns me, all of me. Therefore, he owns whatever I own well whatever I used to own.
That means my body, my belongings, money, all of it. Everything is his.
So what do I own? I don’t think I own anything anymore. I don’t even own my hand or my intelligence or my crayons lol even though I used the word own.
Master has shown me a lesson on the word “my”. It can be owning something or belonging to.
Example: This is my bag-you own the bag, it’s your bag belonging to you.
This is my country- You do not own the country, you are belonging to it.
So when I say my Master, I do not own him he does not belong to me, it means my as in belonging to him.
I’m trying to find a “loophole”. At least one thing that is mine, belonging to me.
I think it is supposed to mean he owns me entirely and hence everything that I used to own. That is not a bad thing, it is what I want. It is what being owned is to me in our dynamic.
The only thing that I get equal say on is our baby. So in a way I “own” her, technically half of her lol
Conclusion: I don’t own anything! 🙂 lol
Every dynamic is different though so what do you guys own? -
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Em, you own your choice to have the lifestyle you live. Even though He has taken over as you wished so you no longer have to own, the original choice to live the life you want was yours. You will always own that. Owning things is not so important. You own your half of the circle of fire. Without you and your original choice, he would not own you. Even though a M/s dynamic is different than D/s, I think even though you are 100% owned, there are responsibilities in the dynamic that you both have to own. Otherwise there would be no Master to your slave.
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These are my feelings about my relationship.
Everything my Sir has is mine just as everything I have is his. It’s not half his, half mine; it’s all his and all mine. Just as I belong to him, he belongs to me. He is in charge, he has the final say, he guides and disciplines me, he leads our family and marriage. I give my support, my counsel, my effort, my heart to be his helpmeet and companion. We are ours. If either of us were to lose the other we would lose a big piece of ourselves. -
I think it is supposed to mean he owns me entirely and hence everything that I used to own. That is not a bad thing, it is what I want. It is what being owned is to me in our dynamic.
Being my Sir’s, belonging to him is very much what I want. Your joy in being owned comes through in your writing. I really enjoy reading others views on how their relationship dynamic works and feels to them. Thank you for sharing how you feel you belong to your Master. I really enjoyed thinking about and discussing this topic with my Sir and exploring our relationship further.
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