• Visitors at home .. seeking advice

    Posted by hellyjane on at

    I’m wondering if anyone has any advice?
    My husband and I are only 2 months into this lifestyle and I have to say I AM LOVING IT! We have an intimacy previously unimaginable and although scenes are not ultra-frequent, our play times and our simple together Dom/sub way of life has liberated me, calmed me and amazingly changed me. We celebrate our 30th anniversary this June with 1 adult son still living at home. (As he goes out regularly we are able to plan play around these times)
    Ok, so my concern: my mum and step-dad are homeless for 6 weeks so are staying with us for that time starting from a day or 2.
    I have been practising addressing my husband by name rather than Sir today (I just know I’m going to slip up on this and see my mother’s questioning gaze already)… I am worried about slipping back and don’t want to so much. Anxiety has plagued me so much in the past and I don’t want to be that person again. Please give me some advice and encouragement on maintaining our new lifestyle when we have family guests for such an extended time and being so new still.

    Thank you in advance

    hellyjane replied 7 years ago 1 Member · 1 Reply
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    Thank you Morning Glory .. I think another fear I have is how I’ll cope without my maintenance smacks and impact play. It centres me so much. It’s so hard to do this QUIETLY.

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