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  • Revalation, thus far

    Posted by juliet-rose on at 5:40 pm

    I have been thinking about trust loyalty and self awareness. I have found self awareness to be the most important and difficult. Of course I trust him, I’ve been married to him for a decade, we have two kids. I’m very loyal, I’ve never had eyes for another man…maybe a few cute girls, but he didn’t mind. But self awareness was a tough one. One of my mantras is I am beautiful inside and out, I will act accordingly. That means no holding on to anything negative, it’s beneath me to gossip or slander, I have to take care of my body, soul, and spirit. It’s easy to love and care for someone else…not as easy to love yourself. In order for me to be a good submissive I have to know the worth and value of what I’m submitting and make sure it maintains it’s value, or else what does it mean?

    twiztidzgurl replied 7 years, 7 months ago 5 Members · 5 Replies
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    • juliet-rose

      at 7:15 pm

      it is! I am very critical of myself and my Sir HATES that. I believe when you tell yourself that you are something, it gives you an excuse to be that. So if I’m going to tell myself anything, it will be positive and I have every reason in the world to do that

    • mouse

      at 2:40 pm

      Juliet Rose,

      Your post is so true, we often times spend our energy focused on others and fail to build pur own bank of beauty with words. I have also recently realized the importance to be attentive to self as much as I’m attentive to my family is important.

  • Vixen

    at 10:44 pm

    Well done ladies, and thank you for sharing! I’ve never thought about a personal mantra. I am always working to tell my teenage daughter how beautiful she is, but you guys are totally right about sharing the love inwards too.

  • twiztidzgurl

    at 2:28 pm

    I am much like Vixen…I work on telling my teenager how beautiful she is, and how she does not need to be so hard on herself, yet I am by far my worst critic! I never put much thought into doing anything nice for myself, even something as simple as a mantra. It sounds like a great way to “retrain” myself and help build a better self image! Thank you ladies for sharing, as I would have NEVER thought of this on my own.