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Revalation, thus far
I have been thinking about trust loyalty and self awareness. I have found self awareness to be the most important and difficult. Of course I trust him, I’ve been married to him for a decade, we have two kids. I’m very loyal, I’ve never had eyes for another man…maybe a few cute girls, but he didn’t mind. But self awareness was a tough one. One of my mantras is I am beautiful inside and out, I will act accordingly. That means no holding on to anything negative, it’s beneath me to gossip or slander, I have to take care of my body, soul, and spirit. It’s easy to love and care for someone else…not as easy to love yourself. In order for me to be a good submissive I have to know the worth and value of what I’m submitting and make sure it maintains it’s value, or else what does it mean?
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Juliet Rose,
Is your mantra actually “I am beautiful inside and out, I will act accordingly” ?
how interesting that mine is “I am so beautiful” when ever I look in the mirror and/or get ready in the morning escpecially naked in front of the mirror after a shower.
This is to help me with my self esteem. Have to say it is working! Thanks to Sir.
Yes, it does help to realize your inner and outer beauty and worth.-
it is! I am very critical of myself and my Sir HATES that. I believe when you tell yourself that you are something, it gives you an excuse to be that. So if I’m going to tell myself anything, it will be positive and I have every reason in the world to do that
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Juliet Rose,
Your post is so true, we often times spend our energy focused on others and fail to build pur own bank of beauty with words. I have also recently realized the importance to be attentive to self as much as I’m attentive to my family is important.
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Well done ladies, and thank you for sharing! I’ve never thought about a personal mantra. I am always working to tell my teenage daughter how beautiful she is, but you guys are totally right about sharing the love inwards too.
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I am much like Vixen…I work on telling my teenager how beautiful she is, and how she does not need to be so hard on herself, yet I am by far my worst critic! I never put much thought into doing anything nice for myself, even something as simple as a mantra. It sounds like a great way to “retrain” myself and help build a better self image! Thank you ladies for sharing, as I would have NEVER thought of this on my own.
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