• New year new us?

    Posted by obedientlyhis on at

    Hi all

    I have joined this group as a newbie, my husband and I had a failed D/s relationship a loooong time ago. Its taken nearly a year of lots of talking and self reflection for both of us to realise we have a) been living D/s lifestyle for a while again b) he really really dislikes 50 shades of grey for the way it shows the lifestyle c) he insists on starting again without any reference to our past D/s relationship so it will all be completely new.

    I will be lurking here to reread and relearn how to be a better sub. He is not yet Sir so please don’t think I will be being disrespectful if I don not refer to him as such. We are taking it very slow but it is very positive!

    Unknown Member replied 7 years, 1 month ago 4 Members · 4 Replies
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  • simone1984

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    Hi.
    Im new to this too, i lurk around also ? Glad to hear you’re giving it another go.

    Simone

  • staci

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    Hi there!

    I agree that Christian Grey gives Doms a bad name. 😉

    I’m new here too, and so far in the forums have referred to my husband as “my husband” instead of Sir. I was not aware that was disrespectful. I call him Sir in the moment, but it doesn’t come naturally to refer to him that way with others.

    Is that widely regarded as a norm?

  • Unknown Member

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    OH,
    WELCOME BACK ! a share from Curvey…

    Happy that you BOTH have decided to give your marriage the GIFT of reboot ! It takes TWO strong people to admit the falilure and BOTH want to go again ! I CHEERS you BOTH !!
    Yes, Its a MUST to truly WIPE out clan out all the past and throw away that key ! Truly , Forgive …LET IT GOOO !!

    FSOG is fiction just like most BDSM books….take it as that ! Funny Entertainment !

    We are Married 28 years + ….we both lost our ways …stopped sharing, caring, respecting …climbing the corporate ladders …. Several years ago I BROKE ..its was NOT who or what I wanted for my marriage my Life. Our reboot to D/sM has given our marriage a strength , bond, love , respect neither of us had ever known ! We have NEVER looked back because , there is NOTHING back for us !

    Living Happily D/sMarried After,
    Curvey

  • Unknown Member

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    Sem ,

    LOL … sorry …when I read your share Whats the Norm .. 🙂 a Share from Curvey

    There is NO norm anywhere

    I call Sir as MUCH as I can 24 7 365 ….It feeds him , its feed me It LETS us both know our roles

    MMM FSOG…LMAO who wouldn’t want a helicopter ride

    Curves

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