• Making suggestions in an established relationship

    Posted by celly d on at

    I feel like I need some advice. I am the second sub/wife in my relationship. I entered into the relationship a year ago that had been established for about 20 years. There are standards,rules, and protocols set, and while I am loathe to request or suggest, I feel that i need and crave more structure than what is already here. I understand about being open and honest…but worry about stepping on the toes of my sister/wife/sub. Are there any suggestions, please.

    Kaninchen replied 10 years, 6 months ago 1 Member · 1 Reply
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  • Kaninchen

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    Go to your Dom and be honest. Ask for more structure that you are not sure of your complete role. He will show you the way. He will be understanding since you are new to this role.
    You might want to contact my friend THEPERFECTSLAVE…. she has some experience that I lack. Tell her LK sent you… Shes soo nice!
    LK
    Good Luck!

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