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  • Posted by mooshsmrs on at

    So my husband and I are in the very early stages of our D/s relationship right now. We are essentially just discussing particulars and practicing. Last night we had sex for the first time since deciding we want this. we also had a practice punishment. He was very good, but I kept laughing! I didn’t want to but I couldn’t help it. I don’t want to disrespect him and I suggested he should discipline me if I do that. Has anyone struggled with this? I want more than anything to show him blanket submission in all things.

    tigress replied 5 years, 3 months ago 12 Members · 13 Replies
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  • loren105

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    This is sort of a fear of mine too. We’re very equal and complement each other in power outside of sexual activity, so it’ll be hard to step outside of that. I would imagine him punishing you for laughing at him is a step in sub training, so he’ll just have to train it out of you. Maybe then you’ll be able to more easily exit your pride and enter sub space.

    I seriously laugh to myself anytime I consider my formal request. We haven’t done it yet as we’re both still doing our own homework, but I imagine it’s not going to go well for my bottom until I learn to take it more seriously. 😀

  • Unknown Member

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    I am newish too. But, I will share ….were you both laughing?? Then go with it Chalk it up to first time. Or was your Sir disapproving of you action. I never nor allowed to make suggestion to Sir unless Dt.

  • plaything

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    I struggled at first also. I laughed the first time my sir told me to do something. I didn’t know how to react. I am so used to raising 2 boys and a household that I didn’t know what to do. We have since worked out some of the kinks and we are still learning everyday

  • We are into our second year and sometimes I STILL get a laughing fit. My Sir asked me last night what he needed to do about my laughing. I honestly don’t know. It just hits me and I am not laughing AT him but more at myself or I don’t even know what! I suggested he look on HusDOM.

  • mandy03

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    Thank you ladies for mentioning this. I thought I was just having a hard time with this. I’m glad I’m not alone in this.

  • sweetsen

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    I to have a hard time with laughing inappropriately master lets it go in most instances but if its a serious moment such as discipline or a serious discussion then I get punished for it

  • kinkerbell

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    Laughing, yes that happened to me last week.

    We where into a serious spanking session and all Over sudden laughter build in my chest.
    Believe me the spanking was painful since Master used his favorite toy, the Kantschu.

    I was laughing because I was happy, happy to endure the pain, happy to make him proud.
    First he was not amused and he asked me why, are you laughing, my reply was because I love you and I am happy to be yours.

  • jerseysub75

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    We laugh all the time, sometimes he laughs because I am surprised by a request or don’t know exactly what he is talking about. Other times I laugh because he isn’t normally an ass and he will start trying to be more of an ass. Other times he wants something but I can see the laughter in his eyes. No matter why, laughter is a good thing just not always good timing. I always do what he asks or tells me to but not always without laughing. Although, we are still new at this.

  • Unknown Member

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    LAUGH ON …….

  • joffddk

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    Some of our spanking sessions collapse into hopeless giggling and laughing too. We have only been doing this for a few months. Sometimes we start laughing cos i lose count or sometimes i start to cry and laugh at the same time (usually when im stressed or emotional about something) or when we broke the first thing we used – a slim wooden ruler, and again when we broke the second ruler and again when the pathetic wooden spoon snapped the first time we tried it.

  • Unknown Member

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    Dearest Jo,

    LMAO!!!! LAUGH ON …… WELCOME , I have missed you on chat 🙂

  • bea-spanky

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    Oh my, it’s so good to see your not alone on the journey! Laugh on, it’s good for the soul…and the bottom!

  • tigress

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    A surprise hard laugh jumped out of me during punishment recently from a shockingly great contact WACK!! I mean it was flawless in contact as the sound rang out and my cheeks stung!!!
    Sir says…”Your laughing?”…“Oh no no no Sir!!”…(oh shyt) “It’s a nervous laugh” (Was it? Yes and no😆) “shocked nervous laugh Sir” annnd Im laughing more now…”Count the rest” …laughing dead stops “Yes Sir”..

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