• Posted by psychotic on at

    I don’t know if this has been discussed and I haven’t said anything to my master yet because I don’t know how to broach the subject. My master has other subs, I am his only sexual sub, and we are discussing a ltr because he wanted to be with me before I found out his lifestyle. So, now the jealousy part, he takes me to all of his sessions with other subs. Either their boyfriends or husbands are there but I find myself jealous of the time he spends with other subs. I want him to want only me how do I get over this help!!!

    psychotic replied 8 years, 5 months ago 2 Members · 6 Replies
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    That is hard. I’m not sure that is something you can just get over if it bothers you that much.
    Would it help to not go or is it just knowing he was with them?
    I would talk to him and maybe he can help you but it sounds like that is something he was upfront about to begin with. You may have to decide if you can handle it or not.

  • psychotic

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    He was and that’s why it’s upsetting me I want to be a good sub and he takes me with him so I know that it’s not about sex and there are other significant other/spouses there to talk to so I’m not sure why I’m getting jealous I’m not even someone prone to jealousy maybe I’m just overreacting because I’ve only been D/s going on 3 weeks

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    Ahh so it is more emotional? I could see that being even harder to handle.
    I would definitely talk to him about. Possibly in time you may be ok with it and then again not everyone is able to share such an intimate bond.
    I hope talking with him will bring you some peace. 🙂

  • psychotic

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    He told me that we will talk tonight he says he understands and finds it cute. So, we will see where it goes.

  • psychotic

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    Okay update everything is good master wanted me to come to the sessions since we are ltr and he wanted me to know that his sessions were not sexual and I had nothing to worry about so if I don’t want to go I don’t have to

  • psychotic

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    Second update master hasn’t asked me to go to sessions and I asked him how they were going. Turns out he stopped sessions for a while wants me to have all of his attention. I asked him not to stop because I know what the sessions give him. He told that I’m the most important thing to him and that I need him more than they do so I’m having mixed feelings now and wish I hadn’t said anything

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