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Introductions
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Sage I think a lot of us can relate to your “control freak” issues. Working on yourself first to get in the subbie mindset is a good idea. Join us in the Warren chat when you feel comfortable.
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Hi I am Heather aka Claimed kitten. My Sir is master wolf on Husdom. We are not married but both divorced and know that we will eventfully get married. We have been together a year and each knew in the previous relationships that we were D/s just could not peruse our roles. We have been toying with D/s since we meet but truly accecpted our roles about two weeks ago. We have four kids, 3 mine, 1 his, and are very excited to be on this journey together.
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Welcum CK! This is a great p;ace to learn about D/s-m. Enjoy the journey.
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Hi. I’m Bella.
Vanilla life: my husband and I have been together for 9 years and have 2 kids. He’s in the military and I work as a receptionist (but have also been in the military and worked as an EMT, a personal trainer, and a writer).
We’ve dabbled into BDSM since we first got together because I’ve always been into certain kinks. But recently, we’ve started to REALLY dive into the D/s lifestyle. I think this is what I’ve always craved and had a deep yearning for, so the transition isn’t as difficult for me. But I think it’s harder on him because I do have a trauma history and he, being the amazingly, wonderful, loving man he is, I think is worried about pushing me too far.
I’m glad I found this page though and I look forward to hearing for others and getting advice and guidance on how to be the best sub for my wonderful hus Dom.
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Hi I’m lillysubwife
I’m relatively new to this LS.
We’ve been married for nearly 8 years with 2 young kids, but recent events have led us down this path of discovery of our kinks and what we enjoy.
Due to the issues that lead us to this honesty of who we are and what we desire I sometimes lose my submissiveness, it’s something we are working on.
I truely look forward to learning and hearing from everyone here and learning how to let go of the past and embrace the future with my husDom -
Hello everyone!
I am KittenAnn, 26, living in WA. married to my Sir, Frog King, just over a year, together a total of 5 years. We have no kids yet, only two fur babies. While we’ve always had somewhat of a D/s dynamic in the bedroom, we’ve been exploring this as a lifestyle the past week or so, and are excited to learn and experience more. -
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I am amazonpixie, although that name is self-given, not by my Sir. I am 48 years old, and my Sir and I have been married for twenty-five years. We have only recently started our journey, mostly due to religious repression on my part. We have two amazing children, 15 and 8, which can make D/s a little challenging, like others have mentioned. Up until about six months ago, our dynamic in the bedroom was absolutely vanilla, so this has been a huge change for us. My Sir is on husDom, and I am so grateful to have both sites to help us navigate. -
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I am Mrs.A. Happily married to my Sir (MrA on husDOM). We have been together since 2003 and married since 2009, we have two young daughters.
We got started December last year when I finally shared my cravings and asked him to dominate me. We are keeping it mostly to bedroom play for the moment and we are slowly learning more about ourselves and finding our way together. What I have read here so far has already helped us on our path.
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I’m Rebecca…becca is what most ppl call me. Me and my husband have been talking about D/s for a few months now and have been trying to read about it. I am glad I found this site…there is so much info here that I haven’t found on other sites. I like that it is about being married and how to make it work in our marriage. I am shy about talking to ppl I don’t know but I hope to learn and make some friends that I can talk to. every one I have talked to is very nice and helpful. I’m still making reading the blogs…theres so much! -
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I’m a married 46 year old sub of 24 years/26 years together. My Sir is Julian on HusDom.
we have only been in this lifestyle since May, lath obvious signs early on (when we look back). Outside the house I’m full dominant in a high paced world, but at home or around my Sir, I prefer to attend to his needs. Odd no?We are exploring this journey together, finding our way as we go.
Hope to get to know some people and learn as we go.
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Hello All!
I am a married mother of 3. My Sir is Mr Shnorkendoodle(inside joke) on husDom. I realized fairly young that I liked to be dominated sexually but fought it for years thinking it was wrong. My Sir has opened up a new me, and together we are exploring this new sexual freedom. We knew it was for us not long after trying it. Been using submission in the bedroom for 4 years. But we just recently signed a contract to make it official and are now exploring what our commitment looks like in everyday life.
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Welcome to the site MrsShnorkendoodle. Make sure and join us is the Daily chat when you can. If you look at the top of the page there is a pull down menu titled Where to Begin. There is some great reading there as well as all of LK’s blogs.
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Hi All! Being a new subbie is hard but finding this place has made things much clearer for me. My Sir is new as well and very excited about our journey together. We have been married for 5 years and have a beautiful little girl together. We started our journey into the D/s-M dynamic in June….. and I am a runner. 🙂 Finding subMrs has helped me find the patience to slow down and enjoy each phase for what they are. Born an Aries I am a natural leader very outspoken and go at things with a ferocity most don’t. So when deciding to start this journey I knew it was going to be a challenge.
A little about how I found my desire for submission. A piece of me of course always knew. I always dreamt of a husband that would take care of me and dote on me all the time. I always wanted a career so not totally 50s house wife but pretty much everything else was what I invizioned the perfect man. I model this after my grandfather he was awesome! My parents did not have this type of relationship, my mother carried all of the stress of our family and that was the last thing I wanted for myself. My marriage is the one place I have never WANTED to lead. And in college where everyone finds theirselves I found my sexual appetite for rough sex and domination. I have had a hard time talking to my husband about our sex life. He would get upset at just the thought of someone else being with me. So that has a bit of a hurdle in our sex life. He has had to learn to put aside his jealousy and insecurities about my past because it’s the past, all that matters to me now is him. Actually it’s kinda how we started. I love adventure and new things so naturally after 5 years of the same thing I was getting bored and decided I had to confront him for the sake of our marriage. He understood and agreed to start trying new things and once we started doing things I had never done before he began to be much more comfortable in his own skin. Now that he was more comfortable I started reading trying to find exactly what it was I was l👀king for. It didn’t take long for me to find BDSM. Once I presented it to my Sir he loved and we began our D/s-M dynamic.
I love this site so much. Keep all of this bottled up could drive someone crazy. It’s so nice to be able to share and learn from others!
Thanks all!
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Hi. I’m Hot Doll. I’ve been married for 36 years to Master Chief on HusDom. Three grown children with 6 grandchildren. Empty nesters. We are new to the D/s lifestyle. Although, we have played around in the bedroom only off and on. We are monogamous. We have run into some rough times within the last year when I realized I wasn’t giving him what he wanted or needed and he had an affair. I guess I can say Vanilla life got in the way of our intimacy. He stopped the affair as soon as I found out, but there was damage that was done. That made us talk about what he was looking for and what he wanted. And I realized as we talked, I also wanted some of those same things. So here we are. We are both enjoying learning and reading about how to make our D/s the best it can be. Looking forward to learning more and finding out what our new dynamic is and where our dynamic is going.
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Hi, I’m 49, and have been married to my sir 25 years, we have 4 children, 2 still at home and a grandchild. We have just begun our journey into the possibilities a D/s relationship could have for us. I have fought the desires to be submissive since being mildly introduced to it as a teenager. I thought my sir would think I was nuts…I fully regret now not being more open about that part of my past, we could have been so much better with each other sooner! I have sent him the link to Husdom and he has begun to build himself as my Sir. But we are both totally new at this as it has never crossed our minds as a couple, well his at least. We are starting the journey slow in the bedroom, and I am working on encouraging him to be confident and allow me to fully submit to his desires. I feel he is still testing the waters to see how I react…I need lots of practice.
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Bea, Welcum to the site! This is an amazing place to help you on your amazing journey. Life is full of regrets but it is important to keep looking forward and don’t let the past stall your journey. It is important to lay everything out on the table, past hurts, regrets…all the junk you carry around with you so that you can start fresh from here.
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Hi I’m 47, and my Ma’am is not on HusDOM yet. We have been married almost ten years, have an amazing 2.5 year old son, and are actively trying to have more children. I have wanted to submit to my Wife since we were dating, but never got up the courage until it became obvious to me that holding back this core aspect of my sexuality and romantic affect had been causing a real problem in our emotional and sexual connection. My “coming out” to my Wife has really set me free to express the depth of my love for her, and her acceptance of me in this has been the very first time in my life I have felt truly accepted for who I am. Our intimacy has blossomed over the past two months in ways I did not dare to hope. I’m glad to have found this community, because it doesn’t feel safe to talk to anyone else about all these feelings, and I don’t want to overwhelm my Ma’am. She’s being so good to me, as She struggles to figure out how to engage this strange but admittedly delightful shift in our dynamic.
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Welcome Freeandopen. Nice to see another submissive husband here. I hope you’ll find the group here as helpful and welcoming as I have. We’ve been married 20 years and D/s for about 10. My Ma’am just recently joined HusDOM and is starting to explore a little further. Perhaps we’ll run into each other in chat one day soon.
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Hello! I am so glad you are here! I am also glad that you like it here…
We are here to subport all of our sub…subbies AND sub hubbies! Please let your Ma’am know about husDom…it is the other site for Doms that is run by LK’s Sir, Mr. Fox.Smooches,
Veruca
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Hi I’m sub16 I’m 39 me and my ma’am been together for 16 year’s married for 14 and have three boys we are new D/s we started this journey a little over a month since we started are communication and intimacy have much improved I want to continue to grow so I can serve and please my ma’am the best way possible
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Hi I’m Lovelee Sir and I have been together for 28 years however we have been on and off D/s-M for about 2 years. Yes it has been a while for us to get it together. However I know we will and I can’t to tell you when that happens.
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Hello everyone, I am lady. I am 32 years old and i have been with my Sir for 18 years this month. I have have been a bedroom submissive for the majority of our relationship. Over the past year we have started to take the D/s relationship out of the bedroom. I am glad that i found this site as i have been looking for a safe community to be a part of and learn. My first day here i met Katyusha, she was so nice and provided me with some advise. I have read through some of the posts , finding them very useful. I look forward to meeting everyone and learning.
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