• pearl

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    Probably everyone has their own definition but I will give it a go.

    Impact play: Spankings, flogger, paddle etc. For me this is not about the pain but the rhythm of the impact. I’m not a big fan of pain for pain’s sake.

    Pain play: could be anything that causes pain and is enjoyed for pain’s sake.

    Not sure if this helps at all.

    (((Hugs)))
    Pearl

  • piccola

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    Hi Pearl, yes that makes a lot of sense thank you!!

  • Unknown Member

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    I think it’s a situation where impact play is a TYPE of pain play. And there are a lot of different variants of pain play.

    I do agree with Pearl that you can be into a specific kind of pain play, like impact, but not pain play overall. Like, I enjoy the pain of spanking, but I dont want my hair pulled to the point of pain (only control tugs). So I wouldn’t really consider myself into pain play.

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