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How How To Reasure Sir He Won't Break Me?
How do I reassure my Sir? We didn’t have have a disagreement and it’s not an issue with my submission. I want to say it’s not an issue with his Dominance, but I’m not sure on that. Maybe it is? Due to him just getting comfortable with being Dominant and crafting his domliness.
I’m getting ahead of my self. Sir and I were discussing fantasies and things we might like to try that we haven’t yet. It was a fun conversation. During it though Sir said something that I’m a little puzzled by and I have verbally tried to reassure him on this, but I don’t think I was successful on reassuring him. Anyway Sir said he has and is holding back with Kink on me and he afraid he is going to break me. This seems so odd as we have always talked with each other and shared our fantasies with each or so I thought.
Any how, I told Sir that is why we have safe words, check in’s, and wordless safe actions. So that if I’m uncomfortable or he is we can change pace, change direction, or just stop. That I don’t judge his kinkiness and ever have. But all he answered with was an okay that didn’t seem that he was reassured at all. I’m not even sure what exactly it is he’s holding back because he wouldn’t answer the question but gave a deflecting or redirecting answer if that makes sense. Kinda wonder if he didn’t answer very well because he just thought I would say yes to anything just to please him, but that’s not case.
So how do I reassure my Sir on this? How do I help my Sir on this so we can move forward better?
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