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  • Happy 40th!

    Posted by melissajf on at 11:35 am

    I’m still reeling from a private weekend alone with my Husband/Sir in NYC for my 40th b’day, I am tired in all the right ways. We are about 8 months in our D/s. He took me by surprise really! Had the kids staying at grandparents, took care of everything. We keep things pretty low key in front of the kids, family, but when it’s just the two of us together his Dom side and my more sub side come out so we knew a weekend away was just what we needed. Anyway, while we were in the city we picked up a few new toys, and I finally got my first wand. As soon as we left the store he told me we were testing them out before dinner, so back to the hotel we headed. Once back, I was to take a shower, and be wearing nothing but my collar afterwards. I have this lovely silver, thin, hard curved necklace, easily mistaken for a simple collar, so I made sure to pack it with us. At home, I would be on my knees on the floor but my Sir knows my feelings about hotel carpets (eewww..) so I was allowed to kneel on the bed this time. Then the blindfold came. Sir loves to do this to me, it brings me into full submission, I focus only on him and his needs. I trust him 100%, after 11 yrs of marriage I should. After that, my new hooked plug was inserted then he laid me on my side with a pillow under my head, arms behind my back. I know what’s coming next. He has full on playtime with every part of my body, while I am slowly taking him in my mouth, his hand on the back of my head pulling me in closer and deeper down my throat, my body convulsing from being prodded everywhere. And then came the new wand on me. I think I saw stars, literally. After the mind blowing orgasm both in me and in my mouth, I felt amazingly ready for dinner.. hehehe…

    We left a little later, still wearing my necklace, to an amazing place for a bite to eat. They put us together side by side at a private table , it was so very romantic. It was hard to focus on dinner when I knew what was coming later back at the hotel, but we really did enjoy ourselves like grown ups do (without kiddie menus and with real cocktails), all the while my husband/Sir is telling me in my ear the places he is going to take me later that night. After we walked back to the hotel, he allowed me to show him a nightie I brought along with as a surprise – dark grey silk, tiny straps and short to right under my bottom giving him a view if bent over even just a little bit. He loved it, as I hoped he would, and he indeed did do everything he said he was going to do to me that night, then the next morning, and afternoon again before we had to pick up the kids again Sunday evening. It was the BEST 40th Birthday weekend ever!

    sirslittlemissy replied 7 years, 8 months ago 3 Members · 2 Replies
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  • bliss-aka-mr-grants-muffin

    at 6:11 pm

    Happy belated birthday! Sounds like it was very exciting and memorable to say the least. 😉

  • sirslittlemissy

    at 7:41 am

    Sounds like a great celebration! Happy 40TH!