Christmas Activity Idea

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Christmas Activity Idea

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KLB asked me to share the list I came up with for my husband … sort of a 30 days of kink idea. I think the original list might have been writing prompts, but I modified it quite a bit to fit where my husband and I are in our D/s – and also had to account for a week separation with some distance ideas. For each day I made a separate little document with images, or web links (trying to provide a starter on the research for him, since he’s busy and each idea comes rapid fire.)

I hope you all enjoy … I know we will be enjoying in our house! <grin>

Day 1 : New Positions
Day 2 : Kink – Spanking
Day 3 : Outdoor
Day 4 : Kink – Public Foreplay/teasing
Day 5 : Strip Tease / lap dance
Day 6 : Kink – Bondage
Day 7 : Kink – spanking (increased territory – thighs, pussy, breasts…)
Day 8 : Slow and lazy
Day 9 : Kink – Ice and Hot Wax
Day 10 : Kink – Sensory Deprivation
Day 11 : Roleplay – King/Slave Girl
Day 12 : Food
Day 13 : Body Worship
Day 14 : Dirty Talk! Extra Dirty!
Day 15 : Kink – Flogging
*Day 16 : Solo-ing together/phone sex
*Day 17 : Build a sex playlist
*Day 18 : Kink – Exhibitionism – (skype?)
*Day 19 : Kink – Edging
*Day 20 : Share a fantasy – write it out or find an online BDSM themed story that turns you on
*Day 21 : Bath or Hot tub
Day 22 : Quickie
Day 23 : Double Penetration
Day 24 : Massage
Day 25 : Teasing Only
Day 26 : Kink – Daddy/Baby Girl
Day 27 : After a fight
Day 28 : Kink – Power Play
Day 29 : Kink – Pain Play
Day 30 : Last time for a long time

sdlft-toy replied 7 years, 4 months ago 5 Members · 11 Replies
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Thanks Meaux. What a great idea.

We don’t get the chance to play everyday with work and little people but this could totally work for a few days per week. Maybe a little something that requires less time on the other days. I will have to get creative.

Sounds like you two are going to be very busy for the next month. Fun fun fun

Hugs LG x
lg

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Last time in a long time LMAO. At least you will make up for it over then next month.
meaux

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LOL, I think that’s more of a roleplay item (last time in a long time) but it does look funny at the end of the list!

I also told him if there was any day that he was too tired, wasn’t feeling it, or the idea just didn’t make sense for how the day was going he could decide whether or not to follow through or even combine a few days if he wanted. Trying to keep it low pressure.

LT also shared a similar idea in chat the other day, this is my paraphrasing of what I recall:
Each of you come up with 30 D/s ideas and put them in a fishbowl (one for the sub, and one for the dom). Every day you each pick one from the bowl your partner made and then you act on it. She mentioned being realistic about things you could do without purchasing a lot of stuff (or with what is on hand) – and that it is a fun ice breaker for trying out new things and finding out where your partner’s mind is as well.
darlinglady

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In reading through and adapting your list for us, I was wondering what the following ones meant?

Day 27 : After a fight
Day 28 : Kink – Power Play
Day 30 : Last time for a long time
meaux

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DL – One interpretation might be
Day 27: Makeup Sex?
Day 28: Something that plays off of a power exchange…
Day 30: How we’d interact if we were going to be apart for a long time?

Just change them if you don’t like them! I took “cross dressing” off of the original list because I didn’t figure it would do anything for either of us. Some people may enjoy that type of play, I didn’t think we would …
darlinglady

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Cool thanks, Meaux. Yeah, I’ve taken off a few that won’t really work for us at all. Isn’t most of D/s a power exchange?
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  DL – regarding the power exchange comment, I’ll just say that it is a dynamic that will be good for us to practice overtly one night. Specific to our growth totally (although it was on the original list.) That’s the same reason I have things like roleplay king/slavegirl. 🙂 Just pick what sounds fun and helpful to your relationship and let the rest go!
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HO HO HO goooo MEOWZ !!!

Hearts,
CURVEY
meaux

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So, the comment last night (after I did my strip tease dance to “Sweet Dreams” by the Eurythmics) was …”So do I get Christmas in July also?”
lg

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Awesome!!

I am working on a shorter version, 10 days to christmas.

Also thinking of doing this as a lead up to Sir’s birthday.

Thanks for the inspiration.
sdlft-toy

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Meaux – love the ideas. Thank you for sharing. I am sure my Sir would mirror the sentiment of yours about Christmas in July. lol

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