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Checking in ok?
I feel Mister’s mindset not exactly where He wants it to be. He’s been pretty sick so it’s understandable but I can tell it bothers Him.
He has often mentioned about Him cheking in on me throughout the day. Like making sure I am eating correctly, drinking plenty of water, taking meds, my hair is done, cleaning is being done, etc. Due to Him just being over all busy (and not feeling well) He hasn’t and He mentioned how He is trying to remember but keeps forgetting.
This morning I decided to help Him by checking in with Him myself. I let Him know all the tasks I’ve completed this morning and such.
Do you guys think this is helpful? Overstepping? I won’t get to see how he feels about it until much later tonight!
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Of course you will have to see how he feels about it but I think it is ok. I will text Good Morning if it has gotten late and I know he’s busy. I know work is crazy and he feels guilty when things are too hectic so I will check in voluntarily setting his mind at ease.
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TT, I think I would listen and watch to see how he processed your check in. Just let it work out for you both. The more you feel your Sirs needs and he communicates , the better you will feel About Your actions. For me , I just do what I know he exdpects and I have my daily list I know I Need to accomplish.
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Thanks for the different perspective! I didn’t think of it like that! He said He was ok with me doing that and that His goal iis that it will help Him get in the habit of checking in. He doesn’t feel the need to everyday and I don’t NEED told what to do as I know what is expected of me. It’s just nice that He checks in with me occasionally so what I have done is acknowledged in some way (or to get my ass in gear if I’m having a lazy day). Does that make sense? And I am horrible about taking my meds so it can verify very helpful lol
I love everyone’s point of view and learn so much!
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Everyone’s dynamic is unique. Ultimately it’s what works for you both. It is nice to see how other’s do things so that you can take tips you find will suit you. 🙂
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