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  • Body Piercing

    Posted by hdk on at 4:54 pm

    Hello everyone.
    I have been contemplating getting my nipples pierced for a lil bit now. The thought of it is exciting, however a natural body is beautiful. I do have a double belly button piercing. It’s something I love and Sir love’s to play with them, especially when I put rings in. I have found a piercing artist with his APP license (Association of Professional Piercers) Sir is leaving me with the decision to make, told me he would be happy one way or the other. I’m still debating and would love to hear any thoughts, advice and stories you all may have. Please dont limit to nipple piercing, I want to hear about body piercing’s in general.

    twiztidzgurl replied 7 years, 7 months ago 7 Members · 8 Replies
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  • collette

    at 2:56 pm


    I’d love to know what the experience of others is in this respect. Sir and I have discussed it though he’s not keen on the idea of having my nipples pierced. Clit hood piercings, however…

    If you have it done, HDK, I’d love to know about your experience with the actual piercing and how you incorporate the piercings into play. 🙂

  • lindaday

    at 12:28 pm

    I would like to know also. I have thought about this for a while. Sirs only two concerns are a metal allergy and if it would make me less sensitive.

  • sassymagpie

    at 3:20 pm

    I have nipple piercings. I got them this past May. I have not had any problems with them. They are the bar style in Surgical Steel. They have made them more sensitive. Little things, like having them flicked with his tongue, are much more intense. The actual process was very quick. I thought getting my ears pierced hurt more actually.

    Be sure to do your research on the piercer. I went to a place where that is all they do. Only piercings. They should use the needles only once. Stop in and ask questions. They should be willing to talk to you and answer questions. I had personal reference also. But I did go back and talk to the piercer just a couple of weeks ago with questions about changing the jewelry. He was very helpful.

    As for the metal, there are different kinds to chose from. I think most use the Surgical Steel. You can also get titanium. But it does cost more. Once they are healed, you can switch to even gold. But, the piercer did say, that he would suggest the Surgical Steel or Titanium for “the things we do”! It’s not as soft and won’t bend with the bigger gauges. The higher the number, the smaller the wire. I was pierced with a 14 gauge bar. But he suggested I move to a 12 or 10. Less likely to bend or make me rip if we started to use them more for play. He said the gold and sterling silver are softer and should be used more for decorative wear.

    Hope this helps. If you have any other questions, feel free to ask me.


  • collette

    at 4:51 pm

    Ok, so now I have to ask. What do you do with them??? *evil grin*

  • sassymagpie

    at 12:25 am

    Well, you can tug on them. Hang things from them. If you have rings, you could clip your cuffs to them. Sir likes to flick them and use his teeth to tug on them. He also likes to use them to twist them. You can still use the nipple clamps with them too. I’m sure there is more. 🙂

    • kitty

      at 10:31 pm

      I just got my nipples done 21 days ago. I have super sensitive skin so metal allergies were an issue. Elaine Angel has a fantastic book called “The Piercing Bible” it is a must read for anyone thinking about piercing of any sort. She also has a website and really answers emails. I sent her a question asking about metal allergies. (even yellow gold gives me fits) She stressed the use of surgical grade steel or titanium and nothing else during the healing process. I have yet to have any issues. The first few days were pretty sore. I got large rings (sir picked them out). I would have rather done bars during the healing stages and switched to rings later. They catch on more things you wouldn’t think of if you have large breasts. Even though we can’t play with them yet, the visual is a good thing for sir. It is what I did as my first official act of submission. As far as pain, well that is really subjective. For me I put myself in a “scene mindset” they pain was tolerable and was made better by knowing I was doing it for sir. Don’t get me wrong, it is not pain free at all, but it was a fun pain 

  • mrs-arrow

    at 5:45 am

    I have a clitirol hood piercing i don’t wear it all the time as walking up stairs can make my knees go a bit jelly. I have had mine for 12 yrs nearly.

  • twiztidzgurl

    at 5:15 pm

    I had my nipples pierced a few years ago. Sir LOVED them, but I had to take them out due to an unexpected pregnancy and not being able to breast feed with them in. I too thought the piercings made my nipples more sensitive, which was a very good thing for me, as breastfeeding four kids at that point had caused them to become somewhat numb. I told Sir when I took them out that I would never pierce them again, but now I find myself toying with the idea of redoing them. The piercings (once healed) really do not stop or inhibit much as far as sexual activities in my opinion!