- MemberMarch 26, 2018 at 4:57 pm
My DD’s birthday is coming up soon and I would like to surprise him with a starter kit of sorts. Being relatively new to the lifestyle, I am not sure what to include. I saw that HusDOM has a thread that speaks to tools and toys, but since my DD is still reticent about joining, I don’t think he’ll read it any time soon. Thanks in advance for your suggestions.
- ModeratorMarch 26, 2018 at 8:38 pm
As long as there aren’t any rules set about you buying toys without his permission, I recommend the following for a starter kit. I am sure others will have some suggestions as well!
Tweezer nipple clamps
- MemberMarch 26, 2018 at 9:35 pm
Thanks Veruca. There are no rules set against me doing this.
AnonymousMemberMarch 27, 2018 at 4:40 am
V’s list is exactly what I would suggest as well. Have fun!
- MemberMarch 27, 2018 at 11:29 am
YES to all of those!!
Water-based lubricant and specific lube for the anal plug (start with a small plug). Our favorites are Wicked Aqua Sensitive and Wicked Jelle (anal lube).
Clitoral vibrator (if you don’t already have one)
Wrist cuffs–you can get an inexpensive pair and try them to see if you like wrist restraints before investing in a more expensive leather pair
Tickler (we have a small tickler with silicone strands)
One word of advice–include 3 or 4 new toys in your gift so that he is not overwhelmed with too many new toys and techniques all at once. We need to have patience with our Sirs as they get used to these new aspects of play, and the patience pays off!!
- MemberMarch 29, 2018 at 6:37 pm
Thank you all for your suggestions.
- MemberApril 28, 2018 at 7:30 pm
Agreed! One thing that he would certainly appreciate as a new dom is a blind fold. If you have silk fabric that would work too, but I remember it was a confidence boost for my Sir 👍🏼 We got many of those toys to start with and life put our ads on hold, so we’ve just started playing with those things again, and I’ve got to say, our liberator wedge, a wand, nipple clamps and leather flogger have been great!
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