Birthday Starter Kit

[Veruca]

As long as there aren’t any rules set about you buying toys without his permission, I recommend the following for a starter kit. I am sure others will have some suggestions as well!

Tweezer nipple clamps
Anal plug
Silk ties
Blind fold
Slapper crop
Wand

[eaglekeeperz]

Thanks Veruca. There are no rules set against me doing this.

[Unknown Member]

V’s list is exactly what I would suggest as well. Have fun!

[kittyh-mrdh35]

YES to all of those!!
Other suggestions:
Water-based lubricant and specific lube for the anal plug (start with a small plug). Our favorites are Wicked Aqua Sensitive and Wicked Jelle (anal lube).
Clitoral vibrator (if you don’t already have one)
Wrist cuffs–you can get an inexpensive pair and try them to see if you like wrist restraints before investing in a more expensive leather pair
Tickler (we have a small tickler with silicone strands)

One word of advice–include 3 or 4 new toys in your gift so that he is not overwhelmed with too many new toys and techniques all at once. We need to have patience with our Sirs as they get used to these new aspects of play, and the patience pays off!!

[eaglekeeperz]

Thank you all for your suggestions.

[sugarnspice]

Agreed! One thing that he would certainly appreciate as a new dom is a blind fold. If you have silk fabric that would work too, but I remember it was a confidence boost for my Sir 👍🏼 We got many of those toys to start with and life put our ads on hold, so we’ve just started playing with those things again, and I’ve got to say, our liberator wedge, a wand, nipple clamps and leather flogger have been great!