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Balance…and how to keep D/s with life obligations
Life has been crazy to say the least, not bad but crazy. This year to keep from burning out I need to find some balance and I am struggling greatly. Quick background..5 kids at home, homeschool them and now I am the primary caretaker of my mother in law as well, she had a stroke. We have given up our dream life to care for her and we are loosing ourselves in this task. Granted there are several reasons to that not just her, basically life is crazy busy and we live opposite schedules. He goes to bed as my alarms is going off. It makes for very long weeks.
We have several small things to keep us connected during the week. We also have scheduled time on the weekends and try to have a night away every two months. However I can feel myself getting very resentful towards her. I have spoken to Sir but he has no ideas because there doesn’t seem to be anything we can change. It has stressed him out even more than usual.
The biggest issue is she walks right into our room whenever she wants, even when it is locked. She just unlocks the door and comes on in. Well now Sir wants to back off of the things we like so we won’t have to explain to anyone. Honestly part of me gets what he is saying and another part wants to throw a freaking tantrum. We are happier now than every before and I am scared if we give up anymore we will go back to vanilla fights and all.
So my question is have anyone been able to find balance between D/s and life obligations, such as caring for ailing parents?
Maybe I just need someone to talk to that would understand my frustrations. Thanks.
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