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Badge of Honor!
MasterG and i just recently started maintenance spankings in our D-s/M life. We only do them every other day – because MasterG felt that it may hurt me by doing them everyday. We have a set number of spankings each time, that MasterG has decided on, and then once i get used to that number, then Sir will increase it as He sees fit. i have told Him that I can take more, but He reminds me that i belong to Him and He will decide the number. He was reluctant to start maintenance at all because of feeling that He would hurt me – so i accept whatever He is willing to do.
Since beginning the maintenance spankings i have found that i crave them a lot more than i ever thought that i would – and surprisingly, one of my favorite parts is when i am at work during the day and away from Sir, and i sit down and feel the tenderness on my back side – it is a constant reminder that i belong to Him.
i feel at times like a strange egg thinking that i would never have imagined craving a spanking – but it’s more the connection between us that i crave. i love feeling His hand on my behind and the warm heat from his attention. He tries to do maintenance in the mornings before i leave for work – and He likes the thought of me driving to work with a red/pink behind and the thought of me being reminded through the day who i belong to. It keeps me in the submrs mindset all day.
It reminds me through the day of my submission to Him and during the maintenance i feel very submissive because i am willingly submitting to Him for his attention. It also is a helpful reminder to MasterG of his dominance and helps him build His dominance and grow more so into the HusDom that i love Him to be. i am so glad that we have gone down this new road and i hope to never go back!
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8 Replies
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This is such an awesome post lady! I also enjoy and find a lot of satisfaction in maintenance spankings.
I will admit that I had my first one in a while a couple weeks ago (due to Sir’s shoulder surgery) and it felt soooo good…it was just what I needed. It settles me. It connects us. It snaps me right back into mindset. It quiets my brain.
Smooches,
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I agree with you about the mindset, Veruca. We had kind of gotten off track last week because of MasterG not feeling very well – I hate to admit it but I found myself acting bratty at the beginning of this week because of missing His attention. Unfortunately, we had an attitude adjustment meeting just last night 🙁 and are back on track this morning.
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What a great post Babby Boop!! thank you for sharing. I like that you do a ritual or maintenance spanking in the morning this is a great reminder or your submission and helps keep you in a mindset for the day, not just for you but for your sir also. I bet he has a large smile on his face as he sees you off to work with a pink or red ass!! We have been looking for another ritual to add to our very small list and this is so perfect. Problem lies with the 4:30am leaving time for my sir and im still sawing logs lol. We might have to adjust a little.
Thank you again for sharing!!
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Like I mentioned earlier
I love learning and I post it
In my journal.awesome post
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Love your post Babyboop! Maintenance spankings are great. I like that you have a set number, and that they are scheduled. Thank you for sharing.
Belle
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Having a ritual is fantastic…having one that provides a reminder for the day is amazing! Thanks for sharing.
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Thank you for sharing Boop! I have often thought about maintenance spankings wondering if they would help keep that bratty behavior at bay while trying to reform some bad behaviors. Its has been awhile since I have brought them up to Sir though. Might have to revisit that during downtime. Love the inspiration we get from each other 🙂 Thanks again!
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Thanks everyone for the feedback! It is very encouraging!
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