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A New Chapter
Nine weeks ago I approached my de facto husband and asked him if he would join me on a journey of discovery into the world of Domination and Submission. I couldn’t quite say why I was drawn to it, but knew from my teens that I was a little kinky but had never really expressed my sexuality. He and I had flirted with vanilla with a twist so I knew he would be comfortable with the idea of D/s. When I initially asked him he said he was glad I asked because he would never have asked meas he felt it was wrong to inflict his desires onto someone. We moved to another city and started exploring and defining what it was we hoped to achieve. It was painful: I had no idea that I would react so strongly but we were moving at different paces and had different ideas. We slowed down and started to communicate. Last night I managed to convince Sir to complete the task of defining what we wanted from D/s, and to work out our hard and soft limits, rules and punishments, and notes. I was cheeky and asked sir to measure his fingers as I have a ring gauge. I told him that i wanted to get an idea of size because one unusual way of plotting weight loss without tracking weight ie kg or Lb was to see if our fingers got smaller. We did this when we measured me up for cuffs and collars. Today is our 2nd anniversary of moving in together. I wanted to make it extra special so I planned to do Formal Acceptance to celebrate our anniversary. This is as close to married as we will get, and in fact it is more significant than that. Today I was in the city and I hunted for inexpensive steel rings and found a matching pair. Nervous I went for a coffee and texted him not to come home as I wasn’t there and had the key. But he had already left plus he was bringing work home to complete! The evening got worse – my bus broke down just as it entered our suburb. I had to call him and tell him that he would be stuck in the stairwell outside the flat until I walked home – a 25 minute walk away. I finally got home, and as Sir was changing his clothes and talking about the work he had to do I decided to do it there and then. I stripped off and knelt at his feet. I talked about our journey so far and asked him again to be my Dom, that I needed him to guide me through life, and that I truly wanted to be his submissive and would try with all my might. he accepted with an “of course I will be your Dom and I will do my best to be the Dom you need.” I cried a bit and he told me to put my head on his knee. I reached behind me for the little bag and gave it to him and asked him to accept my gift of the ring as a symbol to show the world our connection to each other, and to remind each other of his dominance and my submission. Thankfully he accepted the ring.
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This was beautifully written. And it shows that even when things don’t work out the way it was intended it can still be a deeply fulfilling and beautiful moment. Congratulations LB. Best wishes for your journey and thank you for your inspiration and courage to post this very intimate moment here. I still need to work up the courage to post my own experience here.
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Awww…LadyBird, that sounds lovely! Congratulations to both of you! Thanks for sharing with us.
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LB, loved it! I wish you and your Sir the very best. 🙂
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Beautiful!!! Thank you for sharing
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