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1 Month Check-Up
It’s been about a month since Sir agreed to be my Dom and accepted me as his sub. I feel like a lot has happened in just 1 month.
At the beginning, Sir was worried about the kink side of it all, saying that he has “never been very adventurous”. Now he is exploring punishment, impact play, and pain play. He’s gotten good at giving me orders and expecting me to obey.
As for me, I have found that I am more horny now than I ever have been before! I literally crave…something every single day. I’m also finding that I lean heavily toward being a 24/7 sub. I want to sit at his feet, fetch whatever he needs, cook and clean for him. I speak with him before spending money and anything that is not groceries. I speak with him before making any big decisions (allowing someone to “hire” one of the kids, considering a job offer even if it from family, purchasing educational material for the kids). I speak with Sir about anything I want to volunteer for or any activity I want to attend or sign the kids up for. I can make decisions for myself but there are things I will always defer to Sir for.
For the most part, Sir is still only asserting his Dominance when it comes to bedroom stuff. We text a lot (we always have; it’s easier with kids) and there is definitely an increase in play, but it’s all still very vanilla… very twisted vanilla, but vanilla all the same. It almost feels like he thinks the only time he can be Dom is when it comes to bedroom stuff. He has expectations and rules for daily life but he’s not very Dom about them. I’m hoping that if I am patient and not pushy about it he will see that my sub side is always showing.
I’m still trying to convince Sir to register on husDom and that I need DT (he’s pretty sure that any time we talk is DT). He told me the biggest reason he hasn’t registered on husDom yet is because there’s a lot of material to read through and he does not like reading. LOL. I try to go through some of the blog posts for him so he doesn’t have to read through, but there are things I just don’t have access to. I think the next time I talk to him about it I will suggest that he send me anything that looks interesting so I can read it for him.
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