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Help with wax play
Hi
Master and i tried wax play tonight and now I have a burn on my tummy. They are the proper candles and he was holding it at the suggested distance. We tried in on my hand first and it was fine it was also the second drop on my tummy that burnt not the first.
He ofcause stopped straight away and looked after me and after clearing the wax off and cooling the air went to start again but I freaked out so he moved on.
So I have two questions:
1. Would it have to do with location (an inch below the belly bottom)?
2. Any recommendations on how to move on from the fear as it something I really want to do?Also any suggestions in general on how to use wax properly would be great
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4 Replies
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I am no expert that is for sure but I have learnt a few things.
Different candles of the same type/brand can burn at different temperatures. Even ones specifically for wax play can be too hot. Certain additives eg fragrances, oils and colours can make them hotter.We always try new candles on our arm/hand first then less sensitive areas, shoulders and upper back. Moving to more sensitive areas as we are comfortable with the candle.
We start holding the candle really high and come closer as we are happy with the heat of the candle.
Make sure you are nice and warm when first starting out with wax play it makes it easier to absorb and enjoy the heat.
To rebuild your confidence I would start with a massage candle. You can melt some wax. Blow the flame out and let it cool slightly. Your master can pour some in his hand first then rub it on you. As you are more comfortable try dripping a little on a less sensitive area, I suggest shoulders. As you become comfortable with that maybe pour with massage candle. Then go back to the other candles. Finally I would say buying wax pots is a great idea. You can heat the wax to your preferred temp using a thermometer (until you get the hang of it). Take it away from the heat and use a spoon or whatever to drip. Pouring is also pretty awesome once you get comfortable with it all.
I am sure the more experienced subbies will have better suggestions but I hope this helps some.
Happy playing.
LG ?
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Wow, MG, that’s a lot of notes you took! Sounds like a good class. 🙂 Thanks for sharing!
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Subbies! Let’s revive this post. My Sir’s birthday is cumming up and I am planning to order some candles for some wax play. Do you have any favorites brands you can share? How about a favorite wax scene?
Have not tried wax play? Check out LK’s post: https://submrs.com/bdsm-ds-m-lifestyle-chat-challenge-1-wax-play/
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My favorite wax play involves flogging, waxing, and knife play. Sir will tie me down, blindfold me and flog me for awhile. This warms my skin and it feels amazing when he starts using the wax. There is no feeling in the world like feeling the light sting of the heat from the wax running over the freshly flogged skin. Then, as it hardens…it sort of pulls and tightens on your skin a little. It’s amazing. Then, Sir removes my blindfold and shows me the knife in his hands. His scene knives are beautiful…and scary looking. The sight of the knife, combined with the helplessness of being bound….the wax still hardening on my skin….it is DELICIOUS! usually start to squirm and writhe at this point. Sir growls at me to be still or he’ll cut me. He slowly starts to run the tip of the knife over the waxed areas. He isn’t scraping it off yet….just letting me feel the knife through the wax. He keeps the blindfold off now because watching him work the knife over by body excites me. He uses the sharp edge of the knife to scrape the wax off of me. It is slow and sensual. He alternates between scraping the wax, running the point of the knife over my body, and smoothing the feeling away with his hands. To me, this is the best part of the wax play. 🙂
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