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XXX-mas
Hi Ladies!
It’s that time of year again. Let’s have some holiday fun with our Sirs.
Let’s give him a little gift everyday leading up to Christmas.
I’m starting with just the first 5 days. Come back for the rest!
The intent of this little assignment is to spoil him a little, and express to him how much you love & appreciate him. Some items are easy & inexpensive; some, not so much. If you are tight on finances, feel free to use an alternative. It’s about the intent of that particular day’s assignment. And by all means, if you do have alternatives, feel free to share!
** These are from Lk’s original posts a few years ago! We had so much fun doing them, I thought it would be fun to do them again. And they are NEW for our new members. I’ve tweaked them up a bit, but this is still all hers. **
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Days 1 – 5
• Dec. 1st: husDom Bedside Table: This will make a great Christmas gift for your Sir. It is a work in progress during the month. Make a plan today to design your Sir’s drawer. Make your list of what you want to include in his drawer. Stock it up. If there is currently a drawer, take inventory and restock. Or add items to it. You may need to keep it off limits for him during the month, just gently reassure him he will have access under the bow come Christmas Eve.
• Dec. 2nd: 25 days of submissive panties: One way to connect to your submissive feminine side is to buy some new sexy panties. Pick the jeweled colors of Christmas, plaids, satin, lace, sparkle, and of course, some black thong panties. If you watch for sales, you can do this rather inexpensively online.
• Dec. 3rd: Frosty Nipples: Frosty the Snowman is a true winter favorite. Today, all subMrs. should find a way to make a print of their nipples with a frosty & cold element. Make a boob print on a window/mirror with oil, frosting, paint, or just take a pic & send to your Sir. You must keep it frosty, so be sure to use some element of cold. Our Sirs love a good erect nipple pic texted to them – add on as you wish.
• Dec. 4th: Fresh & Faux New Bed Linens: As the weather gets cooler, we tend to want to snuggle in a bit more. What’s more snuggly than a new set of flannel sheets. Wash them up and make them fresh. But also add a scented candle or air freshener to the boudoir – if you get a white background holiday print set of sheets, get a peppermint scented candle. Red – cinnamon/apple. Green – pine. Plaid – Christmas cookies/buttercream/vanilla. Always a wonderful thing to christen those new sheets in the most delicious ways! You can also include some faux fur pillows/throws on your bed which can be used in other places throughout the winter. Match your panties to your sheets!
• Dec. 5th: Cover your husDom in kisses!: This is your chance to go find (at least) three lip colors that mean Christmas to you, maybe the colors on your Christmas tree. Make sure to put down a play sheet and ask your Sir to lay down on it. Then kiss him from head to toe. Make a special pit(penis) stop, and put some rings or Christmas Wreaths around it. Make a design all over him or just cover him all over with your kisses. Then take a pic. He will love this reminder year round.Have some fun & be on the look out for days 6 – 10!
~ dixie
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So fun! I have to go shopping for day 1 (TOMORROW)…but I never turn down an excuse to do that, especially for Sir!
Thanks for posting Dixie! -
Oh I love this! I am a couple of days late but better late than never! I’m excited about tomorrow’s activities!
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Days 6 – 10
• Dec. 6th: Christmas Lace Bondage: Wear your lace panties and purchase some lace for a blindfold & ties. You can make your own lace blindfold. Tonight, show your Sir your Christmas lace & enjoy some Christmas lace bondage.
• Dec. 7th: Animal Instincts: Find a new fragrance for him. This may mean you scoping out your favorites beforehand & then taking him shopping to see which one fits him. Find the one that makes you WET! And then encourage him to wear it! Some guys may be like some of us, and save wearing fragrances for special occasions. Wear your fragrance – it doesn’t do anyone any good sitting in a bottle on your shelf. Enjoy!
• Dec. 8th: D|s – M ornament: On this day, find an ornament that means D|s – m to you. It can be as simple as a black or red ornament. You can make one yourself. Wrap it in rope or twine. Make it special and about you and your Sir’s journey. Make it fun. And a secret on the tree!
• Dec. 9th: Mittens & Panties: Find some mittens that match your panties. Maybe even a sexy fur hat, or even a santa cap. Set the scene & start a fire, get out your fur blanket & pillows. Share a nice bottle of wine. Turn on some old Christmas tunes and enjoy each other’s company.
• Dec. 10th: Dust off a D|s implement: Today, find a “toy” that’s been gathering dust for whatever reason. Wrap it up in Christmas paper & give it to your Sir. Play with it tonight when you go to bed.
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I love these days you are posting! Particularly day 8, as it will help with mindset!! Thank you for sharing this!!
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oops – sorry for the delay, got sidetracked a bit
Days 11 – 15
• Dec. 11th: Christmas Mani-Pedi: Go get a fabulous manicure/pedicure, Christmas colors that match your panties. Maybe get a different nail shape, ie) stiletto nails to go with your stiletto heels.
• Dec. 12th: Cheers to Christmas Desserts: Find your favorite goblets/glasses or buy some new Christmas ones. Make a yummy dessert to use during playtime together. Feed him. Make a plan with him how to use it. Have fun with it. (Hey – this could even work out well with the latest journal “Frosty” journal assignment, hint hint).
• Dec. 13th: Santa Hat & Panties: Go get a Santa hat, match it with a pair of new panties. Maybe get him a Santa Hat. Sit on Santa’s lap & see what happens, especially if you’ve been a bad, bad, bad girl.
• Dec. 14th: Naughty or Nice – your choice: Make your Sir 10 Naughty or Nice Christmas Sticky notes. Write naughty or nice things on them. Stick them wherever he spends a few minutes each day – his car, his briefcase, his mirror, his pillow, his closet, his dish at dinner, his underwear… Use your imagination!
• Dec. 15th: Twinkle lights: Get some Christmas lights & hang them in your bedroom. Hang them across your ceiling, maybe along your headboard, or string them around the bedposts. Use them wherever you need a bit of mood lighting. -
Merry Christmas and a toast to our Doms😍
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Christmas nails
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more Christmas nails
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what I’m currently wearing…
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• Dec. 16th: Body glitter: Get out your body glitter, make your body gleam & glow for your Sir tonight. If you want to really get messy: Get some large pieced glitter (small pieces are more messy & leave more residue) and pour it on your body. Take pics & send to your Sir. Be careful not to get it too close to the bits – wear a panty. Maybe, let your Sir play with you and the glitter, put down a play sheet and have some fun!
• Dec. 17th: Peppermints: A candy peppermint in your bra to sweeten your nipples. A peppermint patty, warmed in a dish and massaged on the skin (be sure to check temp – you don’t want it too hot). Peppermint oil, be careful where you put the oil experiment and test on your skin before play.
• Dec. 18th: Get stoned with your Sir: Okay, not what you were thinking but this spa treatment is heavenly. You can schedule a massage and get stoned together, or you can find a home set. Or try getting a few nice smooth stones (from the store) and heat them in WARM water. Experiment! Enjoy!
• Dec. 19th: Wrap yourself in ribbons. Or you can get some help!
• Dec. 20th: Ceremonial Body Scrub Scene. Find a nice comforting body scrub, or make your own. Draw a bath, and apply the body scrub to your Sir. Massage his shoulders and help him relax. Or choose the shower, and do a full body exploration with the scrub. -
• Dec. 21st: Nipples with bells on: hmm, need I say more? (nipple clamps with bells)
• Dec. 22nd: Tassels and Heels: There are tassels popping up everywhere. So get those heels with them. Find a pair of tassels for your nipples (pasties with tassels). Your Sir will love it. Twirl those tassels for him!
• Dec. 23rd: Dom and sub pillow cases: Today, start your Dom and sub pillow cases. You can bling them or busy some iron on letters. Have fun & get creative.
• Dec. 24th: Make him Christmas dessert: Literally, make him or his (blank) your dessert. Frost him, cream him, sprinkles, cherries….
• Dec. 25th: Footed pajamas: Wear your footed pajamas, be his elf, make your Santa happy.
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