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With change great things can happen
Theres been some pretty substantial changes recently that have the potential to really step up our D/s-M positively. I will do a post about that next week when im off work. But ive stepped back to see what changes i can implement into my personal life, not for Sir. But things none the less that will impact Sir because i will be happier. But the changes will require me to lean on Sir to happen. So my longer term goals.
Getting the house in a better state. In a few weeks whennim on leave we are getting a skip bin to do a serious declutter, which Sir will help with.
My friend suggested writing a book, Sir agreed i should. So im going to play with it. I have a book of poetry published from when i was 18, which i wrote from childhood sexual abuse as i went through the healing/court process.
Walking our dog daily. I stopped due to my anxiety. Shes little so 15 minutes is exhausting for her. It gets me out of the house and a little fresh air.
Getting back into sewing.
I have a small figure. Im about 50kg.(110lbs) i dress like a dag. Summer i wear maxi skirts and singlets/maxi dresses. Winter jeans with a singlet and jumper. Ive told Sir i want to make a better effort in my appearance. He loves my body and i hide it. Im also trying to wear more makeup, even if all i manage is some mascara.
Sir is helping as he knows these little changes will help us both. But he understands they are huge changes for me.
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Missy, little changes can add up quickly. One of the things that I have done is change my underwear. It is amazing what wearing sexy underwear can do for a girl’s self esteem! Wolf purchases all of my underwear for me, so that is his way of choosing my bra and panties each day. It is a little change, one that no one will even see, but it has been a big change for me.
Keep working on the small things!Hugs,
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Pearl,
I have been trying to change underwear. I used to only wear cotton ones, im trying to restrict that to work and period only.
Im trying to start the day with some makeup and instead of chucking my hair in a pony tail being a little more creative.
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