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When You Get Wet…
I bet many of you can relate to being a little subconscious about the amount of “wetness” your body makes. I think it goes back to childhood when I would hear boys talk about the amount of wetness a girl would have. Looking back, they were likely just making up this non-sense locker room banter trying to appear more experienced than they really were with girls. I’d be lying if I did not admit that I would occasionally worry that I was passing an acceptable amount of wet.
A few years ago, before finding D|s-M my Sir and I were having trouble connecting in the bedroom. He was having a difficult time getting and maintaining an erection. He would often say the reason was because I was “too wet” for him. He would grab a towel and dry me up a bit and still nothing. And then we would try and force something and oftentimes, nothing. I felt horrified, embarrassed, and really just wanted to run and hide in shame.
We later discovered the real reason for the lack of erection or ability to maintain it was very low testosterone. My Sir was using me to deflect what was really happening. After seeking medical help, his “T” count is where it should be. And he has apologized many, many times for using me as an excuse to cover up his issues.
As you can imagine, I get extremely aroused and very wet now that we have found and practice D|s-M. My Sir will say he can hear my wetness. My immediate thought has been wondering if I am too wet and not satisfying. I know, I know! I should know better but it is in the back of my head.
To help me overcome this, my Sir initiated something a few months ago that is helping me have better thoughts. He added some phrases during sex. He will say, “TELL ME.” And when he says this, my response is now, “My Sir loves my wet pussy.” (As a side note, this is when we are in the groove of having sex. Not when grocery shopping or watching television.) The first few times I was embarrassed to say it. It felt cheesy. But over time, I have grown to love to say it as sexy as I can. Sometimes, when he is about to release his cum he will repeat this over and over. “Say it!” “My Sir loves my wet pussy!” the harder he pumps, the harder it is to say, “My Sir loves my wet pussy!” He loves it and I really love it too.
Another phrase he added during some sex scenes as appropriate is, “Who are you?” And I will say, “I am your dirty little slut.” It adds some spice!
I appreciate that my Sir has identified an insecurity I have and is helping me overcome it. This is a quality of an amazing husDom who is really stepping up and leading us down an amazing journey. I hope this provides an idea for something that can be incorporated in your D|s-M!
“When you get wet, it usually means something good.” ~ Coach Bill Belichick
sub-Hugs!!
subMarie
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