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When the fun ends too soon – need advice
It happens to everyone occasionally, I’m sure. The sex is hot, you’re on the brink, and he finishes first. As a submissive, I know I should be okay with this. I’m supposed to serve his needs and I should be nothing but pleased that I succeeded in serving him. But in the heat of the moment, when he’s satisfied and I’m a wet, panting mess, I don’t handle it well. If the fun stops completely, I get downright bratty. If he offers to help me finish, I have trouble cumming and feel like it probably isn’t much fun for him. This is not my Sir’s fault, as I’ve sort of created this no win situation for him. Later, when I have a clear head, I feel terrible about being such a poor sub. How should I be handling this? Maybe I need him to Dom up in those moments and outwardly take control by telling me when and how the play will end? Maybe I need to seriously remind myself of my role and just accept whatever happens? Please give me some input, as I fear that this could be a serious roadblock for us in our D/s dynamic, probably because I struggle with being truly submissive in those moments and feel so bad about it afterwards.
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