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When do I give up?
When do I give up trying to involve my husband in d/s and look at being a submissive without a dom? A little back ground we started out with bdsm in the bedroom about 4 years ago at his suggestion, I have always been interested in it but never brought it up as he had made a few off hand comments leading me to think he had no interest. It started to spill out of the bedroom a little over time. We work opposite shifts so he’s either asleep or falls asleep shortly after I get home the four nights a week I work, most weeks we only have one day off together. Finding time to sit down and talk can be challenging because of this plus we have a 6 year old daughter who still climbs in bed with us most nights after a few hours in her own bed. There’s been little to no d/s or bdsm in the bedroom for the last year and i miss it as well as what had spilled over into regular day to day life. We’ll make plans to have some fun with it and he’s backed out the last several times for one reason or another. I’m six months pregnant and finally suggested we take an official break from it last week even though he had said over the summer he was looking forward to our daughter being in school so we would have more time alone for a bit of d/s. He seemed disappointed that I suggested a beak and asked why. I explained why and he said he had been watching porn to get more ideas for us but it wasn’t like it was when we first started out because my job had changed and we couldn”t text about all night while I was at work. He agreed to a break but I sent him the husdom site to look over in the mean time. Last night he texted me that he wanted to talk to me about it today as we have today and tomorrow off together. So far today he’s watched a movie and took a nap and now our daughter will be home soon. I don’t feel like i should be the one to bring it up as it’s always me so I’m having a hard time believing he’s as interested as he claims to be now that I’ve I told him I want a break. When do I stop trying to have any sort of d/s with him and settle for being a submissive on my own?
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